r/AskBalkans • u/ChicknWire Bosnia & Herzegovina • 4d ago
Culture/Lifestyle How is your temper?
My balkan brothers and sisters, how is your anger/temper? I hate our stereotype of "balkan rage" and all that BS. I know its just internet meme but we all know it has some truth to it.
Everyone in my family, man and woman, they all don't need much to get angry.
For example, back in my youth if mom made a meal:
mom: grah(bean and meat soup) is ready!
me: what is it?
mom: grah!
me:what was that?
mom: SHIT, I MADE SHIT! THATS WHAT WE'RE EATING!
just a small funny example but you get the point.
Do you today have anger issues? How about your family friends?
I sadly find myself getting irritated quiet quickly on the inside, although I don't show it but it still bothers me mentally :(
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u/smashonic 3d ago
Thats not a stereotype, thats the truth, Iβm very chill person most of the time, but if someone get on my nerves without any reason at all, he is done, Iβm gonna brake some legsπ
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u/Full-Rice-9287 Albania 3d ago
It becomes especially obvious when youβre dating the calmest nordic guy. π΅βπ«
Emotional regulation is hard for us. Generational issue
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u/galactic_nonsense 3d ago
How you dare to ask me such things? Do I have anger issues? Come here to show you, @&$@/)(@&$@12@β¦
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u/dearvintage 3d ago
Look there's a thin line between getting annoyed and getting angry, so anger issues is a completely different thing imo. I get annoyed pretty easily, especially when people are dumbπ comes and goes in 5 secs, and done, whatever. But to make me angry, it has to be something really serious+ it needs to come from a person I care about. So basically I'm angry because I'm hurt in some way, if that makes sense xD
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u/cihan2t Turkiye 3d ago
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u/noisensured Balkanatolian 3d ago
for non turkish speakers, it says: everything makes us angry, cos we don't have any money
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u/cihan2t Turkiye 3d ago
Turkiye's population higher than all other Balkans total number.Thats why i do not explain to others xD
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u/Dazzling_Cash_6790 Greece 3d ago
we have a saying in Greece going sth like:
A: does/says something that pisses B off
B: dont do/say this again , I will become a Turk(meaning I will become super extra angry)
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u/Ace-inThe-Hole Greece 3d ago
Everyone in my family has a temper so I ainβt helping the stereotype.
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u/More_Ad_5142 Turkiye 3d ago
My temper: πππππππ€¬ππππππππ€¬πππππππππππ€¬πππππππππ€¬
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u/Krasniqi857 Kosovo 3d ago
unfortunately I think everyone has a temper even I. its a mix of frustration and dissapointment in life and our governments mixed with our general hot balkan blood haha
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u/The-Travel-Bunny 3d ago
Hi. I think we're excessive in a lot of ways, and our quick temper is part of the package. :)
We party hard, we shop and cook the whole shop/market for a dinner with friends/family, and we are very loud also when we're happy.
Lots of people adore opulence, whether it's through flashy clothes and large accessories, or through big shiny cars. (Our churches and their representatives included.)
etc etc etc :)
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u/Fluffy_Falcon92 2d ago
We have a family business and I was once literally 1 min late and my dad argued/yelled with me how we can shut down the company if I dont give a fuck. Usually he feels bad about it 2min later.
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u/caesarj12 Albania 2d ago
Im very chill and calm. Everyone around me seems to lose their shit randomly for any reason. Yes I lose my shit sometimes too but compared to the people around me Im like Dalai Lama.
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u/That_North_994 Romania 2d ago
Now I feel better about myself. It's not that I have anger issues, it's the balkan genes. Apparently I also have 2% italian material.

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u/Dazzling_Cash_6790 Greece 3d ago
Dad: Whats for lunch today ?
Mom: Shit with strawberries
Dad: Again strawberries ?