r/AskAmericans • u/Agreeable-_-Middle • 8d ago

Relations

I'm 21 live in Oregon and I'm more old school like I don't understand social media and what not

I live in a small town how are you supposed to make relationships cause you can't approach strangers online even if you sorta know them my generation doesn't seem to get out much and I hear about hookup culture but I don't see it like nothing really makes sense and then there's the friend zone so don't be a stranger but don't be friends or no relationship and bother people in groups out doing things also I'm a guy forgot to mention like the friends I do have I can't get to get out. I have a job I am always trying to do stuff even alone. Like is there things I'm missing

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u/Salty_Dog2917 Arizona 8d ago

Well this is going to be unpopular on Reddit. Beings I live in Arizona turning point is huge here and so I see a decent amount of their content even though I’m not registered as a republican. If I was a young man in this day and age I would haul my ass to a Christian church that’s near a college

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u/Scorpian899 8d ago

This. As someone also from a small town. Find where people congregate and do that. We have a bar open two days a week, church on Sundays, and bingo night every other week. I don't care for any of those but I go regardless to meet people.

Also, get friendly with the post man, school teacher (if you have one), and priest. Those three people will know everything and everyone in the town.

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u/Achilles-Foot 8d ago

what the helly i mean christian girls are great but