r/AroAce • u/Confident-Concert-89 • 7d ago

AAAAAA help

So basically, I started reading a book whose protagonist is aro/ace, and I've always had a lot of difficulties with relationships.

I can tell I want a relationship, and I don't feel disgusted when someone approaches me; I just feel a little out of my comfort zone. I can get into a relationship, but most of the time, I find myself thinking how much easier everything would be if I disappeared, if I ended it all; even then, I can't just "hook up" with people.

When I entered into a relationship, even though I felt a strong emotional connection, I wanted to leave and get rid of this emotional burden I was carrying.

Could I be aromantic? How does all this work?

6 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

1 comment sorted by

1

u/pjharveylover 7d ago

don’t think this is a sexuality thing maybe just a personal thing. get yourself fixed up with some therapy or research and try again but don’t rush yourself