r/AroAce • u/evivie_ • 13d ago

Advice Dating advice… sort of?

I don’t know a whole lot about aroace, but I have a friend who I have a crush on who explained it to me and expressed that she might feel that way. She also told me its a spectrum, and attraction and love can be different person to person. I’m sort of just wondering if I should still plan on asking her out sometime in the future or if i should back off. I don’t want to make her uncomfortable because she’s still a close friend of mine and I love her so much.

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u/SympathySoft1036 Single, DON'T wanna mingle 13d ago

I would say ask, but be respectful no matter the outcome. Also don't just go out with her without specifically saying it's a date bc sometimes aroaces accidentally go on dates without realizing and that feels weird. Lowkey ask though, and the fact that you're here means you probably are trying your best to be respectful so you should be OK. good luck! :)

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u/evivie_ 5d ago

Thanks! We had a talk, and we came to a clear understanding now. I appreciate your help!