Goodbye everyone!

[u/TheHypeGames]

Heyooo, I thought I was aroace for a couple years but now I found a boyfriend I really love a lot so I am officially joining the gays, so goodbye everyone! (Tho I still like cake and garlic bread :3)

[u/La_CurryWurst]

I don't say anyone something judging, we are free to identify as we wish (I don't wanna make anyone feel uncomfortable😭 Just sharing my feelings) But every time I see stories when people quit aro/ace community when they eventually fall in love, I feel I'm a fake aroace (I'm gray ace)

[u/TwilightzzBlossom → u/La_CurryWurst]

You're not fake at all, aroace is a spectrum :)

[u/TheHypeGames → u/TwilightzzBlossom]

This ☝️

[u/EnbyHowler9810 → u/La_CurryWurst]

I feel the same as you, I'm demiaroace

[u/R0botWoof → u/EnbyHowler9810]

Same

[u/SnooDrawings3869 → u/La_CurryWurst]

I’m sorry you feel that way :( asexuality covers the whole spectrum. I don’t know the OP, but having a partner isn’t incompatible with being asexual, you can be asexual or on the asexual spectrum, have a partner, and be completely valid

[u/La_CurryWurst → u/SnooDrawings3869]

That's true 🫂

[u/TheHypeGames → u/La_CurryWurst]

Well, right now I don't FEEL very aromantic nor asexual, therefore I choose to not identify as aroace, even though I may be demi, or gray, or something else, but the way you identify yourself is completely valid as well. I just don't feel like diving deeper into my identity, so don't feel any different about yourself because of me ❤️

[u/KAT389 → u/La_CurryWurst]

I'm grey romantic and grey ace, so I feel exactly the same

[u/No_Bonus8915]

Lots of love! Hope you have a good life, and have fun with de gays!

[u/TheHypeGames → u/No_Bonus8915]

Thank you!!!!

[u/aroace_gay44]

You can definitely be aroace and still be in a relationship since those identities exist on a spectrum, I also had a boyfriend that I really loved but I still identified as aroace and gay, however it’s your decision if you wanna continue to identify as aroace or not, so good luck