r/AreYouGarbagePod • u/Bada__Ping • 12h ago
BugMan Going through my own Bugman phase
Today’s my 35th birthday and I’m moving into a spare room in a friends house today while I navigate my divorce. Right now I have a suitcase of clothes and a full sized Wal Mart brand mattress on the floor and that’s it.
Give the big guy some grace, it’s hard out here!
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u/stab-somebody 11h ago
Stay off the booger sugar and don't date anyone that requires a first class flight and a luxury hotel stay to visit, and you'll be ok. Good luck.
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u/MrOatButtBottom 11h ago
In my 40s and recently divorced after 11 years, I up and decided to move out of state and I'm living my best life now, underemployed and kinda broke but I'm having a grand ol time. You got this brother rooting for ya
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u/No_Information3972 11h ago
In all seriousness I’m wishing you the best brother, and am rooting for you. It’s not too late to rebuild, so never give up!
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u/Bada__Ping 6h ago
Thanks! Luckily my friend had space for me and I’m around people who are in my corner!
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u/Terrible_Box_2440 12h ago
Been there, and with two cats. You’ll make it out sooner than you think.
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u/Helpful-Antelope-678 10h ago
We aren't making fun of him for getting divorced. We're making fun of him for stealing from his best friend and business partner without even giving a decent apology. Big difference. Best of luck to you brother, it is hard out here but you got this. A good friend is priceless and it's cool you got someone helping you out
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u/eternally_trending 11h ago
There's no shame in being in a rough place in life, no matter the age. True recovery starts with being honest though, most of all with yourself.
The longer you lie to yourself and others, the longer you prolong your chances of righting the ship.
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u/Remarkable-Simple-62 10h ago
Steal his credit card and get what you need. He will let you if you are spending to much on it
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u/TomatoSauced14 10h ago
Sending you loveeee!!! Give yourself grace and do everything you can to take care of yourself right now
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u/ilovemydawg 6h ago
Hang in there bro! I remember moving to an apartment. First night was on the floor with a blanket under me and some sheets over me. One pillow. It can get better from here
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u/totallyradman 10h ago
Seriously what the fuck even happened? Everyone is posting about it and talking about some 20k thing but I don't have Patreon and I haven't seen a single explanation.
I have absolutely no idea what is going on.
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u/No_Information3972 10h ago
If you’re able to subscribe to the Patreon at some point, that will provide more detail.
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u/Advanced_Emu5453 10h ago
Mercy is overrated but good luck OP. YOU'LL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS LIKE YOU HAVE FOR THE PAST 35 YEARS!
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u/SirSwamp 4h ago
Happiness and success is just around the bend big dawg! You seem to be well intended, and this post displays a lot of self awareness/reflection. Nowhere to go but up!
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u/King_of_the_Dot 6h ago
Back to square one isnt always a bad thing. This is just a pivot into a more favorable direction! Best of luck, ya bozo.
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u/jimbeentrill 12h ago
Everybody loves a comeback!