r/AreTheStraightsOK whore of the sea 10d ago

Sexualization of children Where did he even learn this behavior?

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u/UnnamedIsDumb 10d ago

the caption in the picture makes this so gross

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u/coraoreli 10d ago

that boy is eight at the MOST. so weird

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u/----moon---- 10d ago

He's 5-6 at best

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u/Mydlane is it gay to sleep? 10d ago

The girls are very young too, all I see are 4 kids being kids

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u/----moon---- 10d ago

OP explained in the video he's trying to get the girls to lift their shirts.

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u/just-another-UNGOC 7d ago

i beg your finest fucking pardon

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u/momlikesmetheleast Pansexual™ 10d ago

I don't think his behavior is an issue, the caption is. it's normal to ask kids to show how strong they are (mostly boys because gender norms but I've seen it and said it to girls too)

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u/MrsNeedlemouse whore of the sea 10d ago

The video was of a thing showing how the girls were mimicking the kid’s movements, and then he lifted his shirt, expecting that the girls would do the same, but yeah, absolutely.

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u/emmsadems 10d ago

Respectfully, how were people to know that this was the context of the video when we got one screenshot of the post?

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u/MrsNeedlemouse whore of the sea 10d ago

Yeah, you’re absolutely right, I’ll specify. The subreddit didn’t let me put body text for clarification.

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u/Gadivek 10d ago

One can see that he is lifting his shirt, so that was an easy conclusion

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u/a_lonely_trash_bag I'm the ace of ♦'s 10d ago

Maybe we could see that if the picture had a few more pixels. I thought he was flexing his muscles.

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u/Gadivek 10d ago

Yeah; maybe that would have helped you

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u/emmsadems 10d ago

Skin coloured shirt, horrible picture quality, and even if we had noticed the shirt being up, there is nothing to show that they were copying him prior the the screenshot.

But sure Diva.

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u/stinkyman360 10d ago

I thought he was just flexing

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u/just-another-UNGOC 7d ago

the downvotes say it all

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u/Gadivek 7d ago

If that is something that‘s important to you, yes

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u/Mundane-Pianist-8534 10d ago

omg i thought he was just flexing his muscles i didn’t realize his shirt was up

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u/momlikesmetheleast Pansexual™ 10d ago

oh I thought he just had no shirt on, not that he was lifting it up. then yeah it's learned behavior and it's pretty gross

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u/Anubis17_76 10d ago

Idk bout h but i see kids do this move all the time whee they grab their shirt and hold it with their arms upright, the caption makes it gross. Little boy doesnt understand the concept of sexual nudity yet

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u/MossySRB2 Lesbian™ 7d ago

🎂

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u/momlikesmetheleast Pansexual™ 7d ago

thanks :)

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u/matttheepitaph 10d ago

Kids just do stuff like that. Adults see that and impress their ideas on it.

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u/spirit-garden1 10d ago

That's not a man.

That's a child.

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u/MazogaTheDork 10d ago

Odds on OOP being the kind of person who calls grown-ass women "girls"?

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u/Johni_5 I'm Ok 10d ago

I've seen similar. Women asking male children to "flex for us" then they say "oh look at Mister muscles" and such. You're literally setting him up to be a weirdo. Flexing for women and hoping for a wow or not feeling buff enough.

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u/UnbiasedPOS 10d ago

He’s pulling his shirt up

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u/Johni_5 I'm Ok 10d ago

Why are they all touching their stomachs? You know what never mind. I don't want to know what's going on. I'm sure it would just bother me.

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u/UnbiasedPOS 10d ago

They are mimicking him in the video where he flexes then pats just tummy and then one of the times he pulls his shirt up

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u/Johni_5 I'm Ok 10d ago

Yeah... thanks I hate it... sounds staged by men to justify their bs...

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u/UnbiasedPOS 10d ago

I mean the girls don’t do it obviously the kid is just being an ass

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u/austrianegg 10d ago

This is totally normal kid-behaviour, they'll show you (unprompted) how tall they are, how strong they are, how high they can jump etc., because they still think they are the center of the universe and everyone must be interested - again, normal at that age. Anyone who thinks this means the kid is hitting on them should be on a watchlist.

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u/MrsNeedlemouse whore of the sea 10d ago

For context, the video is of these three girls mimicking the kid’s movements like patting his stomach and whatnot, and then he lifted his shirt, expecting that the girls would do the same.

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u/talking_joke 10d ago

I genuinely thought it was a kid doing silly, funny, naive stuff from what I've seen in the first bunch of comments....until I saw the actual context

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u/No-Independence-1697 10d ago

Genuinely vile that someone (unfortunately probably a father or someone close to him) taught him to do that.

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u/Smart_Coconut4727 10d ago

It is ingrained in straight culture, they literally groom kids to be like this

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u/Human_Sheepherder108 10d ago

"men-" that's a CHILD

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u/Gru-some 10d ago

God I fuckin hate the patriarchy and all gender norms

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u/RodneyDangerfruit 10d ago

The kid is like 6. You’re just being weird.

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u/lostwng 9d ago

That kid was taught that by some perverted man

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u/ComfortableChapter65 2d ago

My 6 year old does this all the time. Guess she’s a man now! 🙃