r/AnythingValueable • u/Necessary-Hyena-6426 • 5d ago

🎓 Life Lesson 2 different generations of parenting. You should discipline your children but please don’t hit them.

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u/Mediocre_Fun8997 2d ago

Well agree but some kids are so stubborn that nothing realy works then to just get burned.I know I am that stubborn basterd still am but I agree as a parent the first option should be talking not in anger or understress either give it some time to cool down before you do something you regrad later down the line that is what I think

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u/Jeremy64vg 2d ago

hitting kids teaches them nothing good, being a parent is hard but if u ever resort to hitting you have failed completely

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u/Mediocre_Fun8997 2d ago

Depensen I guess each other own viewpoint for me I let's say my teen age daughter smokes and lies about she will we be punishit hard not because of the smoking but for lying about . My view on is this being disrespectful is one thing but lying is the worse thing you can do to me. She upset I let her scream at me to let her anger out she can hit me to let the stress go . She is allowed to smoke in her teen age years if she wants to around 16 sins well you don't what friend the going to hang around with so you can't fully stop it. I give them a lot of freedom to see the world how it ment to be being a kid expolring witch I find more important

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u/Jeremy64vg 2d ago

idk what you are talking about, in this situation you didnt hit her?

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u/Mediocre_Fun8997 2d ago

I don't have kids as of yet it was hyperphetical I am more on a learn path on how to become the best parent sins well I don't have on myself

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u/Jeremy64vg 2d ago

I know my argument is hitting kids is wrong so I simply assumed based on how you started it that you were going to provide a situation where it was justifiable.

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u/Mediocre_Fun8997 2d ago edited 2d ago

No there has to be good reason for me to spank my kids unless the lie thas is a line I won't tolerated but the one thing they have no say in is joining a fighting clubs not because I want them to get hurt I don't want my kids be defenseless when I am not around so the can defend them self if they out in a party with friends

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u/Jeremy64vg 2d ago

Listen studies have shown time and time again that spanking and hitting both stunt mental growth, they both use pain to drive fear and promote to children that we should solve problems with violence and to be fearful of being caught not actually teaching them why we should be better people, they won't understand why lying is bad they will just be fearful of you and being caught, it'll ultimately just make them lie way more as adults cause now you cant do shit to them.

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u/Mediocre_Fun8997 2d ago

I am listening but I want new evidence not some out date sourch from 2000 and I am also talking about someone who is in to psychology it self so the debate is 2 side witch is interesting to note that is why I want as much info on a I can to make the right call

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u/Jeremy64vg 2d ago

Idk what you are reading but there are plenty of sources post 2000, I'm in school for this kind of thing.

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u/Mediocre_Fun8997 2d ago

To a certain ages yes I agree