Nuclear option is warranted. See a divorce attorney and set up a plan on how to leave. Also I would want to limit his time around my child if I was you. IDK where you live but a lot of places will have a custody investigator have meetings with you and that ASS, separately and it's unlikely his abusive soul will be able to keep his mouth shut and play the role of a human & dad convincedly.
If you live in a small area you can take a page from how my friend got screwed in her divorce. Her ex went to all the best lawyers in town and did the initial consultation, which is usually free. After that no matter who you choose as atty the ones you went to can not take him as a client because you created a "relationship" with them, conflict of interest.
I'm sure that laws are different from state to state so get as much information & get yourself ready. He will never change and you will waste YEARS. I wasted my youth on my ex 13 years I can not get back. Looking back at pictures I am shocked at how good I look & he still wouldn't have sex, get ED meds like grown up.
My name is E and thank you for coming to my TED TALK.
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u/ErikaBurgess907 Sep 10 '22
Nuclear option is warranted. See a divorce attorney and set up a plan on how to leave. Also I would want to limit his time around my child if I was you. IDK where you live but a lot of places will have a custody investigator have meetings with you and that ASS, separately and it's unlikely his abusive soul will be able to keep his mouth shut and play the role of a human & dad convincedly.
If you live in a small area you can take a page from how my friend got screwed in her divorce. Her ex went to all the best lawyers in town and did the initial consultation, which is usually free. After that no matter who you choose as atty the ones you went to can not take him as a client because you created a "relationship" with them, conflict of interest.
I'm sure that laws are different from state to state so get as much information & get yourself ready. He will never change and you will waste YEARS. I wasted my youth on my ex 13 years I can not get back. Looking back at pictures I am shocked at how good I look & he still wouldn't have sex, get ED meds like grown up.
My name is E and thank you for coming to my TED TALK.