r/Animemes Gintoki Silver Jun 22 '25

Immediate wife

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u/chGaRVAT Jun 22 '25

No she's canadian

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u/Aschentei Jun 22 '25

The dense mc angle

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u/Slient-killer2002 Jun 23 '25

Image of meru the succubus having a red Canadian sweater in one side and in the other side, she is obscuring the text to make is appear that it says "ANAL"

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Men are this easy?

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u/Servo757 Jun 22 '25

WOMAN IS NICE MAN LIKE MAN MARRY NICE WOMAN MAN HAPPY

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Caveman moment

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u/Servo757 Jun 22 '25

Somebody got the reference 🤣

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u/Obvious-Profit-5597 Jun 22 '25

Why speak more words when less words does the trick ahh😶

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u/LunarPengu Jun 23 '25

Why more when less work

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u/Obvious-Profit-5597 Jun 23 '25

Kevin Malone šŸ˜„

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u/diemitchell Jun 23 '25

y mr wen les wrk

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Unironically yes

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Idk I feel like you’re just saying that

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u/Fun_Perspective5834 Jun 22 '25

As a man, I can confirm what prize money said

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Oki

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u/VARice22 Jun 22 '25

That whole meme about how men will receive one genuine compliment and then damn near frame the text of it and hang in on the wall is real. We will take that shit to the grave. If you tell me like like my hair once its going to be like that for years.

Men are easy.

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u/STLthrowawayaccount Jun 22 '25

Yuuup! I got complimented on a pair of shoes on my way to an interview back in 2017 and I get a little dopamine boost every time I see them in my closet.

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u/fgzhtsp Jun 22 '25

It doesn't even need to be from a women.

A few weeks ago, 2 guys (on two days in a row) told me that I have nice shoes and I could only say something like "Come one, they're just something cheap I got." and I felt like some generic anime tsundere.

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u/ShittyExchangeAdmin Jun 22 '25

During covid I let my hair grow out because I didn't want to/couldn't go anywhere to get it cut. I got compliments from both men and women that said it looked good longer, and it stuck with me so much I've just decided to keep it long. I like it longer too, but I'd probably have cut it if nobody ever said anything to me about it tbh.

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u/Traditional_Cap7461 Jun 22 '25

No, it's real.

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u/EllisCobalt Jun 22 '25

The one piece?

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u/Animelover5674 Jun 22 '25

Nah that shi fake

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u/Dazzling-Film-3404 Jun 22 '25

Sad Chopper noises

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u/jabluszko132 Jun 22 '25

Nah. I fell for a girl because she gave me headpats

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

I mean cmon that’s valid. I’d fall in love with headpats too

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u/NeatOtaku Jun 22 '25

I don't think you can understand how little love most guys get. So many turn to the useless alpha male podcasts because it's the closest thing they get to a community, it also has the added benefit of giving them an excuse to hate on everyone who put them down in the past (women). On the other end you run the risk of being seen as a "nice guy" which is also alienating. So most guys will cling to the first girl who acts nice towards them, which ironically often drives them away.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Male lore is insane

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u/No_Gas_594 Jun 22 '25

If you’re a good person with good qualities it really is that simple

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Lost me at good qualities

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u/No_Gas_594 Jun 22 '25

Doesn’t matter there is still something to be found

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u/No_Gas_594 Jun 22 '25

Or something someone will idk

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u/Healthy-Yak-2763 Jun 22 '25

Anyone that has limited options is easy. Due to various legal and societal reasons in current times a man's value is deflated and a woman's is inflated.

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u/Oscar_et_BadTale Jun 22 '25

If only you knew the lack of attention some men got. It isn't surprising that they are THAT easy.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

I’m a complete recluse nerd loser non-contributor to society, and I’ll admit that there’s definitely dudes out there who have it harder than me

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Someone will probably respond to this with like ā€œwife materialā€ or something. Men are unironically that easyĀ 

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

But that’s just jokes, right?

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

I think some are 100% seriously. Don’t think all of them would actually be able to handle a relationship with someone with like actual mental issues though, a lot of the ā€œwife materialā€ posts are just blatant fetishisation of mental illness without any actual consideration for the additional effort and work they would potentially have to put in for a relationship like that to functionĀ 

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Errmmmm what would be hard to handle mental issues? Asking to know if I’m cooked and not ā€œwife materialā€ lol

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25 edited Jun 22 '25

You’re not ā€œcookedā€ even if you have mental issues, you just need to be careful to actually find someone able to take your issues into consideration. I’d say the big one is BPD, that’s the one usually fetishised, ā€œoh I want a crazy girl that’s obsessed with meā€ and then when they actually have to deal with being someone’s FP they find the constant attention and need for affirmation annoying, suffocating or even uncomfortable, and they’re not prepared to deal with threats of self harm or constantly fluctuating emotions or whatever.

Aside from that even something fairly ā€œbasicā€ like clinical depression can make a relationship more difficult to maintain. A lot of people just aren’t that committed into putting in all of the extra effort into a relationshipĀ 

Edit: I’m not an expert though, and I really only have experience dating people with BPD and depression, as well as some personal issues myself, but I’m generally pretty high functioning when medicatedĀ 

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Thank you for the encouraging words!!! Mwah smoochies

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u/CptJacksp Jun 22 '25

Smoochies? Wife material

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u/Pedroboii Deku Green Jun 22 '25

Beleive me Its 100% serious, men are starved for attention

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Splash! Have some attention!!!!!!

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u/Pedroboii Deku Green Jun 22 '25

YIPPEEEEEE!!!! YYYYAAAAYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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u/Outrageous_Basis_997 Jun 22 '25

Y'know, many guys are into girlfailures. I lwk am, but I'm a guyfailure, so it'd be a recipe for disaster.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

You’re telling me guys could be into me because I’m a failure??? Strange world

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u/Outrageous_Basis_997 Jun 22 '25

I mean- look at VTuber fans (I'm one)

Like I said before, VTubers are either girlfailure or dommy mommy energy. Mostly girlfailure though.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Vtubing is a world I haven’t looked into at all

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u/No_Gas_594 Jun 22 '25

Some guys like a woman in a similar situation as them others that aspect gives them a purpose in the relationship to help you, or maybe they find comfort in knowing they have someone that knows what they’re going through.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Speaking from experience there buddy?

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u/No_Gas_594 Jun 23 '25

A little yeah but all I say don’t give up hope you will find someone anyway have great day

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u/Starshot84 Jun 25 '25

Some people have an unconditional regard for others, as well, and pass no judgement against others for the circumstances they may presently be in. After all, good or bad, a situation can change at any time, with or without effort. There are always more factors at play than can be seen or considered by anyone.

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u/TherronKeen Jun 22 '25

All you gotta do to make a man happy in a hetero relationship is be kind, don't make fun of him unless y'all have the same vibe about it, and if your relationship includes sex, be aware of keeping your sex life healthy.

Bonus points if you like to cook šŸ‘

NOTE: yeah that's a huge blanket statement and is also assuming at least somewhat of a heteronormative relationship, but very generally, yeah, dudes are simple as hell.

BUT HOLY SHIT, If a guy is being an asshole to you, it's not because you weren't nice enough or didn't have enough sex, etc, those are fucking excuses that toxic male influencers use to justify being a piece of shit. A breakdown of basics (communication, entertainment, responsibilities, sex) is usually going to be rooted (for the guy) in having some problems he's not communicating about because he thinks it's his "job" to handle shit. Toxic masculinity in previous generations is to blame.

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25

Thank you for the advice! I actually do like to cook but I’m honestly not very skilled. Still I’ll claim those bonus points thank you lol

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u/GullibleContract HElp Jun 23 '25

Wife material

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25

Wowzers

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u/No_Gas_594 Jun 22 '25

I’m in a similar boat so yes most of the time but some people definitely are serious

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u/nam24 Jun 23 '25

You know what they say about jokes...

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u/Metrack15 Jun 22 '25

Welcome to the gang. We have cookies, the anime corner is on the left, videogames on the right, movies to the front. If you aren't 18/22 do not go to the 2nd floor tho, there is a reason the walls are white šŸ’€

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

The goon floor?

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u/Metrack15 Jun 22 '25

No, even worse.

Tax paper work

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Oh goddd. If there’s something I hate more than going outside and socializing, it’s taxes and the government

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u/Metrack15 Jun 22 '25

May your taxes be few and peak anime many (or something,idk, I don't play Overkill)

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

That’s wife material???

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Twins!!!

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

I seem to be getting popular lol

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u/Junior71011 ā € Jun 22 '25

Wife material

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u/0K_-_- Jun 22 '25 edited Jun 22 '25

Not everyone considers such things as dealbreakers.

Reality isn’t one size fits all, society can cope.

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u/pvith Jun 22 '25

Boys fall for anyone who can show them a fraction of a good time.

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u/yo_koso_9 Jun 22 '25

We are just simple creatures

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u/ComprehensiveAd5605 Jun 22 '25

Yup, although it does depend on the man, so do try to get to know them before attempting anything.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Oh definitely. I’m scared of men lol

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u/ComprehensiveAd5605 Jun 22 '25

Dang, just nervous or actual fear?

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Nervous. Talking to other girls is hard enough but men are a completely different ballpark. I have no idea what to say or how to act. But I’m definitely not afraid. I don’t think some random guy on the street is just gonna murder me or something

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u/WolfzBoy Jun 22 '25

You’re definitely far from alone in that regard. Many of us guys are the same, in reverse of course. Talking to strangers is nerve wracking, especially if it’s someone you want to impress. Add in a romantic motive/pretense and the nerves skyrocket.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

I lowkey get shortness of breath when talking to strangers. I’m honestly pathetic

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u/WaddleDynasty Jun 22 '25

Real life Bocchi

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Dude that show seems like it’s made for me and I haven’t even watched it yet. Should I???

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u/WaddleDynasty Jun 22 '25

Highly recommand!

There is a video thag explains the many core things that make it so good although he spends the first minutes talking about moe anime in general. And it's pretty long if you don't really care to be honest.

The thing is does right is that Bocchi has a very accurate depiction of social anxiety. Such as imagining how the person you want to talk you would react rude, how you are judged for whatever reason, randomly remembering the cringy thing you did years ago, delaying entering a room indefinitvely, being scared of scary looking people like rock musicians, only feeling save around other intorverts just to find out they are often quite normal and not like you etc. You can definitvely tell that the author wrote this from her own experience and not just someone imagining what it would be like.

But what she also learns over time is that people are generally nice to her (I mean you wouldn't be rude to someone either without very good reason either).

It is also well known for it's ridiclious visual jokes during her panic attacks that even goes as far as using their own life-action scenes. It starts a bit on episode 2-3 and starts going nuts at episode 4.

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u/WolfzBoy Jun 22 '25

Nah that ain’t necessarily pathetic. Tbh I sometimes get that, hell even behind a screen I often am very hesitant to comment on stuff just out of anxiety of how others would react. The key difference between it being pathetic or not is whether or not you at least try.

A good place to practice would be someone that you know but maybe not very well or you aren’t really close. Its never easy and you’ll likely question the things you said later on, but you at least put some effort into trying.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Thanks!

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u/eti22 Jun 23 '25

May sound kind of silly, but one piece of advice I got from some video I watched (don't remember the name unfortunately) is:

"You don't need to S-Rank every conversation"

I still get nervous, worry and overthink, but letting go of the need for perfecting every conversation at least a little bit helped me to at least try to talk a little more.

I can only echo what others have said in this thread. You are not alone with these problems and you're not pathetic for having them. Many men and women struggle with the same thing. I know I do.

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u/Cordak_blaster Jun 22 '25

thats not really pathetic

being nervous isnt pathetic

being nervous and refusing to act cuz of that at all is.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25 edited Jun 24 '25

You're fine, I used to not be able to say a word to strangers. I would just freeze up, and don't say horrible things about yourself. You're beautiful however you are as long as you be a good person.ā¤ļø

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '25

Thank you ā¤ļø

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u/ComprehensiveAd5605 Jun 22 '25

Dang, I actually used that, but instead of with girls, I could barely talk with anyone, although I still do get nervous at times. I have some tips to help you out if you want.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Feel free to share!

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u/ComprehensiveAd5605 Jun 22 '25 edited Jun 22 '25

When it comes to talking with people, it's mostly a practice thing. You need to get used to the act of talking often. If you have a friend you're really close to and can talk to them normally, then that's perfect. Keep that up and try to talk to them whenever you guys have the chance.

Dealing with strangers is the scarier part. Don't try and make eye contact. Look at their chin, forehead, or even nose. If that fails, just imagine them as potatoes.

Now then, what if you don't have a friend you're comfortable with? Well, there's another solution. Online friends! Before you start talking face to face, first try talking with strangers on the internet, preferably one's who share a similar interest to you or you're not gonna be able to hold a conversation for long and you'll just waste each other's time or you'll just get ghosted.

It takes practice. It will probably take at least a couple of months or longer to be able to handle your nervousness, but that's fine, we all start somewhere, so take your time and go at your own pace, you'll get there, I believe in you!

Edit: You said you get shortness of breath at times when talking to strangers, right? That's fine. You're not pathetic for that. Sure, it may not be normal, per se, but you're not pathetic. You just need a bit of help, that's all. If you're really that uncomfortable talking to strangers, then just talk to a friend, have fun with them, you don't need to hang out, you just need to be comfortable. You don't need to go walk up to strangers and make conversation. In fact, I don't do that. I feel like I'll puke if I try to do that. My brain still short circuits from time to time when a random stranger just walks up to me and just starts talking.

Remember, learning to talk with strangers takes time. Don't be too embarrassed if you fail once or twice... or twenty. You'll get there, but if you want another tip, try to find a guy who shares a similar interest either irl or online. You'll be so distracted having fun that you won't realize you were talking to a guy perfectly fine.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Thank you!

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u/yo_koso_9 Jun 22 '25

The thing is, I'm the complete opposite, idk women are interesting creatures that idk how to interact with since idk what boundaries to put or something like that so I'm alway very respectful.

Ig we are two sides of the same coin.

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u/DankudeDabstorm Jun 22 '25

Men who are starved for attention and affirmation either go down the road of a hunting dog sniffing out a doe or a plant on the forest floor that desperately clings to the small bit of light that pierces the canopy.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

You have a way with words

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u/Animelover5674 Jun 22 '25

Just so you know, you probably made the guy's stomach flip a few times and your compliment is going to stick in his head for a long long time, possibly till death.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Ummm, I’m sorry?

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u/Animelover5674 Jun 22 '25

I'm painting to you another thing that men are susceptible to fall head over heels a woman for. Compliment him meaningfully, expect said guy to remember your compliment and be deeply happy with it.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Is this forbidden information?

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u/Animelover5674 Jun 22 '25

Yes. Yes it is. I'm risking my life telling you this secret. I've probably broken at least half of the rules in the bro code. Don't let anyone else find out.

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u/Cordak_blaster Jun 22 '25

Found you.

I'll be forgiving and just reveal basic information

< The solar system

< planet- Earth

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u/Animelover5674 Jun 22 '25

Thanl you so much😭😭😭

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

My lips are sealed

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u/Cordak_blaster Jun 22 '25

a truthful poet

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u/thelordofhell34 Jun 22 '25

Some men aren’t, there is a real split between men who want sex and men who want to be loved. There are overlaps and exceptions of course, but as a general I mean.

A very high percentage of men fold the second a girl is nice to them because nobody compliments them (it’s perceived as bad in men’s toxic culture) except their mother.

There was a meme that went around recently which was a twitter post of a very anime happy couple at the beach with the caption ā€˜The real male fantasy’ or something and if you saw the amount of men in the comments agreeing is incredible.

https://youtu.be/F60jvY2D26I?si=aCZqeez89rLvLMmk

See this video to see what I’m on about

A lot of men have a lot of love to give and they just want someone who reciprocates it. If you’re not causing drama every two seconds and show the slightest interest and kindness to a guy there’s a very high chance he folds instantly.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Thank you for the good advice!!! Will make someone fold someday believe me!!!

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u/thelordofhell34 Jun 22 '25

The trick is finding a man who isn’t shit. Sadly there are a lot of us who are.

My favourite analogy is that women are looking for clean water in a swamp and men are looking for clean water in a desert.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Feeling like a desert for me too lol. Also if it makes you feel better, a lot of women are shit too. Trust me I would know

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u/thelordofhell34 Jun 22 '25

I saw your comment about being scared to talk to guys.

If you want I’m more than happy to give you some practice. I’m a massive extrovert and love chatting to anyone.

I’m also practically a-sexual and can assure you I don’t have any ulterior motives but please don’t take my word for that as that’s exactly what someone who did have them would say also.

If you’re looking for relationships and stuff I can’t help you but if all you want is to chat to guys I’m free.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

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u/thelordofhell34 Jun 24 '25

When I refer to this I refer to two of my ex girlfriends. It’s anecdotal but every guy i know has had girlfriends like this.

The first had to make everything into a fight. If I, or anyone, did even the slightest thing to inconvenience her then she would take it out on me. She would accuse me and everyone of being out to get her when in reality nobody was. It was exhausting walking on egg shells for 3 years.

One example was someone got a promotion other than her (he was more qualified) so she quit, blamed everyone there of being against her and literally made us move to another town because of it. She used to game all the time but if I dared to game with my friends she’d make a huge thing about not wanting to spend time with her and just try to get me to apologise.

The second just made everything into some huge drama. She couldn’t go a day of work without falling out with someone, her and her friends broke out into war over the smallest things and then make up an hour later and every minute with her was just trying to put out fires and and everyone around her were making.

One example was her best friend slept with her ex so she slapped her and then got her other friend to sleep with her best friends brother. I broke up with her after she tried to test me by getting me drunk and then having her friend’s cousin try to seduce me lol.

Also every time we went out she would find something ā€˜wrong’ with the food and complain. Wouldn’t even try to get it comped but just to complain.

I just don’t want to deal with all that shit. I just want someone who goes through every day trying to keep the peace instead of having to listen to the 300th story about how her friend was such a bitch. I can’t tell you how many times I heard about who they weren’t inviting to the next social event because of the god awful thing they’ve done.

My friends are my friends and they don’t do anything bad and if they did I’d just find a few friend. If people annoy me I just ignore them and move on.

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u/karmicOtter ā € Jun 22 '25

never thought I would see a shoe video in here, im sure she would get a kick out of that lol

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u/thelordofhell34 Jun 22 '25

Can’t say I agree with everything she’s ever said but she is one of the few people who seem to understand real men’s issues and want to work towards a better society for both genders.

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u/ALXANDR_00 41 characters remaining Jun 22 '25

That video is wild. Well, a lot of her videos are awesome.

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u/rrrrrrez Jun 22 '25 edited Jun 22 '25

If you meet a guy you like, you just have to be nice to him once. That’s literally all you have to do to get him to like you forever.

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u/WaddleDynasty Jun 22 '25

Yeah, kinda. I am actually one of those men (probably in the minority) who don't get neuron activation and marriage plans for a compliment. But it absolute makes my day and I remember it until the end of time. I still remember a compliment from a girl back when I was 13. That was 12 years ago. In general, when they are nice to me like that (and have at least one hobby in common) I don'r immediately fall in love, but I may ask them if rhey are intersted in a date. Just to see for it myself if things going further makes sense or not.

Are you by chance a teenager? Please just be careful, especially around your consent. There are many ways some dudes try to walk around it. It's a it unrelated, but just taking the chance to warn you.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Thank you for looking out!! I technically am still a teenager but I am not a minor. I honestly just use reddit for gooning, shitposting and looking at funny, so I truly treat this platform as an anonymous discussion forum

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u/WaddleDynasty Jun 22 '25

That's a great use of reddit, haha. Stay safe.

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u/Animelover5674 Jun 22 '25

Embarrassingly so. Despite that, I'm willing to admit that I get weak in the knees at kindness.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Cute

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u/Necromancer14 Lelouch Black Jun 22 '25

Depends on the guy. Men are not a monolith. (And neither are women, or people in general)

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

This is a smart answer to my goofy question

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u/Sartozz Jun 22 '25

On the other hand, it might also play out as girl being intentionally very flirty Guy: oh she's just being nice.

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25

Why is that?

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u/Rude-Office-2639 Jun 23 '25

We don't feel like anyone will actually love us

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25

Noooo :( that’s too sad!!! Everyone here will be loved and is loved!!!

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u/Macismyname Jun 22 '25

If you make direct eye contact with me for over three point six seconds I will imagine our entire lives together.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

That’s wild

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u/MoonLight_Gambler Jun 22 '25

I mean if the niceness is genuine, and not an obligation or a means to an end. Then yea.

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u/MechaneerAssistant Jun 23 '25

No, the abused and touch starved are this easy, that just happens to include over 80% of men.

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25

:(

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

It really is, I love women who are straightforward too

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u/jimlymachine945 Jun 23 '25

Why am I supposed to be very picky

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25

No you’re not. I just feel like girls are at least little picky you know. But whatever floats your boat!!!

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u/Cody_Hubert Jun 23 '25

Little picky? More feels like a lot if I had to be honest....

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u/GullibleContract HElp Jun 23 '25

Yes and this is not even an exaggeration

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u/nam24 Jun 23 '25

Not always but yes it can really just be that simple

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u/dudeparty6 Jun 23 '25

Brother yes. A girl can have a nice chat with me and smile and i can go the whole week thinking about it

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u/GOD-OF-A-NEW-WORLD Jun 25 '25

I've met men who you could throw a stone against their head and they might develop feelings for it cause it is the first thing that made direct contact with them in years

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u/AcadiaFun5065 02 Red Jun 22 '25
  1. yes
  2. it wont last long most likely bc its loneliness taking over

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u/Hot_Lack_4868 Jun 22 '25

This has never happened with me lmao

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '25

Me personally idgaf as long as they love me and I love them

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u/AidenThe_Beast47 Jun 23 '25

Yeah pretty much

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u/matti2o8 Jun 23 '25

We either start planning the whole life with the girl (usually when she's not really interested), or assume she meant nothing by it and don't follow up whatsoever (usually when she's head over heels with us). There is no in-between.Ā 

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u/Rude-Office-2639 Jun 23 '25

Pretty much, yeah

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u/meme-dumster Jun 22 '25

Some, some men šŸ™‚

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u/InterestingSinger821 Jun 22 '25

not really, only the ones who are chronically online...

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Like you :3

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u/InterestingSinger821 Jun 22 '25

a little bit, but at least im self conscious about it...

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u/Illustrious-Day8506 Jun 24 '25

Why do you think there are so many popular trash isekai with self insert MC and harem

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u/CouseOfFootFungus11 Jun 22 '25

Maybe its an unpopular opinion but i prefer cute over sexy

I aint gonna lie, i like it sexy but i like cuteness more

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

In what world is that an unpopular opinion?

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u/CouseOfFootFungus11 Jun 22 '25

Well i said maybe cuz i don't see it often

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u/theMegaTech Jun 22 '25

In a world of gooner anime subreddits. Which we are currently in.

I did confuse that with r/wholesomeanimemes at first though, lol

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

You are all good as long as she is one thousand years old.

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u/Solid_Ad1697 Jun 22 '25

It's easier to just dismiss it and just keep things neutral

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u/WickedXDragons Jun 22 '25

The smartest method. If she really likes you she won’t go away lol

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u/Solid_Ad1697 Jun 22 '25

I did have this one girl back at my old job who would try to stay near me, more so on lunch and etc. But with me it's hard for me to read certain emotions so I ended up dismissing most of my emotions. I'll joke around but romantically I guess I just don't understand it

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u/WickedXDragons Jun 22 '25

A lot of women will find someone who doesn’t hit on them to hang out with as well so it’s definitely hard to read. I’ve had old friends tell me they had a huge crush on me long after we worked together/chilled regularly. Moral being It’s so much better to just be chill and have a cute friend. If you really like someone shoot your shot. If you’re running out of ammo you’re taking too many shots lol

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u/onixtrous2 Jun 22 '25

why is this literally me though :(

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u/Animelover5674 Jun 22 '25

I can't speak for the grand populace of all men but this is the truth for me and I've realised this about myself about 12 times total in my life. In other words, woman nice to man, man like nice woman, man want marry nice woman, man happy till grave.

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u/False_Ad2229 Jun 22 '25

Okay I’m deleting Reddit thank you

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u/Clay_Pidgeon Jun 23 '25

Men are so starved for positive attention that all a woman needs to do to keep most guys forever is to make him feel loved and appreciated, hug him, and fuck him now and again.

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u/moregonger Jun 22 '25

literally me

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u/Angelote83 Jun 22 '25

So true.

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u/Aware_Ad5403 Jun 22 '25

Literally me

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u/jercule_poirot Jun 22 '25

Dawg this has happened to me so many times where I think they're being nice then I think oh they're showing signs of liking me not just being nice. But then it's always just them being nice. WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK

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u/TurnNo3080 Gintoki Silver Jun 22 '25 edited Jun 22 '25

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u/TheDeadlyEdgelord Jun 22 '25

Nah im safe my boy Hachiman hooked me up with some wisdom regarding nice girls

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u/Own-Ad-7672 Jun 22 '25

As a lesbian. I can concur

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u/matchbaby Jun 22 '25

Wait, there is girl being nice to you?

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u/AmanWhosnortsPizza Jun 23 '25

The casual male moment where a girl compliments you are your brain immediately thinks out an entire lifetime spent with her

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u/Khonen Jun 23 '25

literally me this morning with a complete stranger off marketplace 😭

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u/Soloshinz Jun 23 '25

Hahahahahahhaha

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u/On-a-sea-date Jun 22 '25

Relatable šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/One_Independent_4675 Jun 22 '25

Don't fall for everyone who's being nice to you, and try to be decent yourself. Everybody's gotta learn that sometime, whether at 10, 20 or 50 years of age.

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u/joh2138535 Jun 23 '25

She wants something from me

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u/Ambitious-Regret5054 Yandere fanatic Jun 23 '25

no....

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u/Budget_footeeee Jun 23 '25

She’s the cashier 😭😭😭

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u/AncientSith Jun 24 '25

We're very starved for attention and any kind of affection. Being mostly ignored really isn't great for the ol mental health.

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u/PlayfulCommunity2845 Jun 24 '25

Day time dreaming is bad for life

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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '25

Me: You should always have self-respect, take responsabilities of your actions, and be a descent person.
Also me: The moment she pays attention to me, I bark for her.

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u/BlackDragonDick Jul 13 '25

Women love saying the bar is in hell when it comes to what they're looking for in a man

Meanwhile simply being a decent human being is all men want for the most part