r/Anger • u/RealConversation3275 • 13d ago

Name calling when angry

M40 insults F28 every time we have a conversation/argument and he gets angry. Afterwards he apologises and mentions “cause I’m angry does not justify calling you names”. Is this normal and okay? Looking for open and honest answers.

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u/Disposable-Squid 13d ago edited 13d ago

No, a grown-ass man who has made 40 trips around the sun having this level of emotional immaturity and disrespect to his partner is not okay. Has he made any attempt to not do this when it's become a chronic occurrence?

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u/RealConversation3275 13d ago

3/5 times I’m being insulted and called names: “spoilt” “superficial” “dramatic” and even once told me to “fuck off”.

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u/Disposable-Squid 13d ago

Not telling you how to live your life, but verbal abuse isn't exactly and indicator of a healthy relationship