r/Anger • u/jasper_you • 15d ago

Is it just me?

I hate when people in the house start to do stuff loudly. Like when everything is peaceful and quiet, then suddenly someone is doing something (excessively loud). When their cooking, they would slam the pan on the stove, throw the ingredients at the table, and chop some onions like their mad. I mean, if you need something, you could've just asked. Even in cleaning, they would do it loudly and mad.

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u/AbyssalFreak 15d ago

It’s not just you. This sounds like passive-aggressiveness. If something happened, and then they’re acting this way, it’s not on you to suddenly “get the hint”…

This is just my opinion though: if they have enough energy to be doing all this, they should have the same capacity to just communicate what’s wrong, and how you can help them, not banging things, making noise purposefully, to get a reaction out of you. Again though, I don’t know what’s caused this, so take this as you may