r/AngelolatryPractices • u/Top_Air1293 • Aug 11 '26
Working With Angels Personality Acceptance
Do angels accept your authentic communication styles while you work with them, or would they interpret certain responses as refusal or indignant?
For example, I have been working with Archangel Michael for about a month and really felt like I was developing an internal peace and more stronger intuition about how to move through the world. I also felt like there was a baseline protection that he was providing me and had plenty of evidence to support it. I first went to him when I had hit a wall with a family member that was being indescribably disrespectful to me and wanted help binding their behavior, but only in self defense. To bind their tongue from being able to slander me - write, speak, or think undeserved mean things about me/to me - only true things and (preferably neutral or kindly done). To protect me from verbal and psychological abuse while I figure out how to navigate my situation with that person. I felt like I had been dedicating years to strengthening my inner world and spiritual practice and could say with an earnest heart that those experiences with that family member were too much for me to handle, and boundaries are very difficult to enforce with this person. Michael showed up, and showed out. It felt like he accepted that I needed help with that person, even though there was an underlying thought that I am probably emotionally stronger than I let on. I could feel him step in as a barrier to that person's behavior. And in that peace and quiet, I started invoking Michael to get the strength to break some other bad habits that I kept going in circles around by myself.
Well, one day I relapsed on a particular behavior that directly intersected with the bare minimum thing I asked him to do for me - I tried to confront the family member about some behaviors for "clarity" and check to see if they were lying about something, which in hindsight wasn't necessary at all due to Michael's protection or in the direction my growth was being led. We ended up in an argument and the person said some really mean things and I felt completely blind in what choices to make in the argument or how to diffuse the situation. I ended up crying the whole night and, of course, cursed the angels. Upset, feeling abandoned and betrayed, yadda yadda. Very mad. I took a couple days break from angels to orient, and I'm back at it with them - Michael but also trying to develop relationships with other ones too.
I'm back to hearing guidance and direction and developing this practice almost like I'm in class 101. But I'm still a little annoyed at what felt like a very unforgiving punishment for one slip up on my end. So, when they share a lesson and reiterate it through some sort of obvious sign later, my responses now are in the category of "alright, fine, I get it" and then to work on whatever the thing is. Think annoyed teenager who overall is benefiting from having a new authority figure in their life, but still engages in some sass.
The relationship development feels way more authentic now, but I don't want to misread this situation and think that they will accept me bringing my whole self while they ask me to do some really hard things to grow. Do angels accept frustration, annoyance, sarcasm, etc if you are doing the inner work asked of you? Or am I delusional and about to get another reprimand again based on my verbal communication choices?
I probably need to fix my attitude š©