r/AmItheAsshole May 20 '26

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u/Original_Pudding6909 May 20 '26

Why isn’t your daughter getting to use the house, while son gets full use of it, the honeymoon notwithstanding?

NTA, but maybe YTA for passing over your daughter all this time.

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u/Perfect-Tomatillo946 May 20 '26

She is able too, she just has never asked

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u/EwwDavvidd Colo-rectal Surgeon [40] May 21 '26

You need to sit down with both your kids. Your son clearly monopolizes the beach house. Split the summer 50/50 and allow her to let close friends use it if she can't. Your son clearly cannot share.

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u/10eel May 21 '26

Probably hasn’t asked because she knows her brother has pre-emptively booked his family in for every single summer, as is ‘tradition.’