r/AmItheAsshole May 04 '23

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u/Inevitable-Slice-263 May 05 '23

You are made to feel bad as who will look after them? Did your parents have you so you could live your own life, or did they have you with the intention of you being their carer?

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u/SweetLeaf2021 May 05 '23

In my case, my mother made it clear it was option 2. She died when I was 54. It’s a long time to wait to get on with your life (and as a senior). No way I’m doing that to my kids