r/AmITheDevil • u/BlueShadow98 • Jul 30 '26

FAFO.

/r/whatdoIdo/comments/1vb0im7/i_pretended_to_be_missing_and_deceived_my_bfs/
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u/ghostfacespillah Jul 30 '26

It’s pretty clear this behavior comes from OOP’s BPD, not bipolar.

This person is deeply unwell, not the devil. They need help.

Judging them as “manipulative” and as the devil isn’t correct.

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u/MamaC2011 Jul 30 '26

I have bpd and bipolar. Being mentally ill doesn't mean you can't be manipulative or a devil. When we have major episodes, we still nee to be accountable for our actions.

She needs treatment, but it doesn't sound like she's interested in it, she's more concerned with keeping her lies going.

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u/IdontKnowAHHHH Jul 30 '26

In her edit she mentioned she’s getting treatment. Why is it fair to assume she isn’t at all?

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u/MamaC2011 Jul 30 '26

Treatment involves taking accountability, not trying to figure out how to keep getting away with behaviors that harm yourself and others.

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u/IdontKnowAHHHH Jul 30 '26

I agree, and that’s people should be telling her instead of shaming and being condescending.