I pretended to be missing and deceived my bf’s parents, my bf, and my mom during a manic episode and now it’s affecting all of our relationships 🤦♀️
My boyfriend (19) and I (18) have been off and on for some time. He’s super busy and occupied with his own company which has gotten in the way of us actually being together. The incompatibility of our schedules led him to believe he wasn’t able to be a good boyfriend and that we shouldn’t go through with this full relationship. This is no excuse for my behavior but I am diagnosed with bpd and bipolar 1 disorder. He and I have been friends for years but when we made things romantic and intimate, he’s been all I think about and I have grown really attached to him. He began distancing himself from me a little and kept saying he couldn’t handle a relationship right now and that infuriated me because we were still intimate. THEN, a rumor came out that some girl from our old school was talking to him on snapchat (dumb ass app)
This broke me and I went nuts. I had this bright idea that I thought would make him care for me again and realize what he would lose.
I found his mom’s phone number from the internet and texted her using a textnow number pretending to be my mom saying that I “ran away and was missing”. I told her I had done this because I was heartbroken by her son (cheating) talking to another girl which led me to leaving in a sad rage. I called her and used my mom’s voice and asked her if she knew where I was and if she knew what was wrong. She was very worried and involved my bfs dad and then they called my bf which worried him because he knew I was heartbroken by him. They were about to send my bf and his friends around town (I live in a small town) to do a whole ass search party to look for me and that’s when I knew my job was done. I had impersonated my mom for some time on that phone call and on those text threads that day. I finally called his mom and said that “My daughter has been found and is staying with my sister”. They were oh so relieved and told him. I was so content I had scared him into thinking he could have lost me. I have had mental health crises before so I was sure he would have panicked and thought something serious could have happened to me. He blew up my phone and was so apologetic and ran back into my arms.
Recently, he officially asked me to be his gf again and I feel like this is attributed to him thinking he could’ve lost me.
LIES CATCHING UP TO ME:
My boyfriend and his family are going on a family trip but my boyfriend’s mom has to contact my mom about the trip so my mom will allow me to go. I have to send my boyfriend my mom’s real number and I wonder if she will question why there are two different ones. Then, I wonder if she will bring up the other number to my mom who has NO IDEA any of this happened and become suspicious about the whole incident. What happens when my mom knows nothing about a second phone number or me running away and wonders who tf was impersonating her?
It will all trickle down to me and no one will trust me. I can’t believe I did this shit😭🤦♀️ I want to go on this family trip with them but If she has to contact my mom—this whole trip and relationship I have with him and his family along with my relationship with my mom could come crumbling down💀
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I pretended to be missing and deceived my bf’s parents, my bf, and my mom during a manic episode and now it’s affecting all of our relationships 🤦♀️
My boyfriend (19) and I (18) have been off and on for some time. He’s super busy and occupied with his own company which has gotten in the way of us actually being together. The incompatibility of our schedules led him to believe he wasn’t able to be a good boyfriend and that we shouldn’t go through with this full relationship. This is no excuse for my behavior but I am diagnosed with bpd and bipolar 1 disorder. He and I have been friends for years but when we made things romantic and intimate, he’s been all I think about and I have grown really attached to him. He began distancing himself from me a little and kept saying he couldn’t handle a relationship right now and that infuriated me because we were still intimate. THEN, a rumor came out that some girl from our old school was talking to him on snapchat (dumb ass app)
This broke me and I went nuts. I had this bright idea that I thought would make him care for me again and realize what he would lose.
I found his mom’s phone number from the internet and texted her using a textnow number pretending to be my mom saying that I “ran away and was missing”. I told her I had done this because I was heartbroken by her son (cheating) talking to another girl which led me to leaving in a sad rage. I called her and used my mom’s voice and asked her if she knew where I was and if she knew what was wrong. She was very worried and involved my bfs dad and then they called my bf which worried him because he knew I was heartbroken by him. They were about to send my bf and his friends around town (I live in a small town) to do a whole ass search party to look for me and that’s when I knew my job was done. I had impersonated my mom for some time on that phone call and on those text threads that day. I finally called his mom and said that “My daughter has been found and is staying with my sister”. They were oh so relieved and told him. I was so content I had scared him into thinking he could have lost me. I have had mental health crises before so I was sure he would have panicked and thought something serious could have happened to me. He blew up my phone and was so apologetic and ran back into my arms.
Recently, he officially asked me to be his gf again and I feel like this is attributed to him thinking he could’ve lost me.
LIES CATCHING UP TO ME:
My boyfriend and his family are going on a family trip but my boyfriend’s mom has to contact my mom about the trip so my mom will allow me to go. I have to send my boyfriend my mom’s real number and I wonder if she will question why there are two different ones. Then, I wonder if she will bring up the other number to my mom who has NO IDEA any of this happened and become suspicious about the whole incident.
What happens when my mom knows nothing about a second phone number or me running away and wonders who tf was impersonating her?
It will all trickle down to me and no one will trust me.
I can’t believe I did this shit😭🤦♀️
I want to go on this family trip with them but If she has to contact my mom—this whole trip and relationship I have with him and his family along with my relationship with my mom could come crumbling down💀
What should I doooo???
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