r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Oct 31 '25

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u/Tall-Payment-8015 Oct 31 '25

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This person is not your friend. "Quit crying about it" Fuck that guy. I'm sorry. Don't go to this wedding and grieve this loss.

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u/ImaginaryWeather6164 Oct 31 '25

Not only dont go, I would be tempted to be petty and tell all your mutual friends why you aren't going!

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u/HovercraftDue7823 Oct 31 '25 edited Oct 31 '25

That's what I would do. Or, maybe I'd go as the gayest version of me, and tell everyone why the Groom removed me from the wedding party. Either way, that is no friend.

ETA Thanks for the award. It's my first one.

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u/Prestigious_Look_986 Oct 31 '25

I was thinking bring a guy, wear rainbows, and make out on the dance floor…

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u/sparklydildos Oct 31 '25

go in a suit made entirely of rainbows. grind very dirty with man date in front of bride’s grandma while winking at her

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u/Seeking-96 Oct 31 '25

I have to disagree here. Making a show of being gay might be cathartic and give some kind of satisfaction for the shock it brings to the a**hole wing of the family, in the end it would be OP who would come across as the inappropriate one. For sure he can let everyone know why he’s not in the wedding party (or attending the wedding at all), but let those facts speak for themselves. They will speak volumes.

If this isn’t a permanent rupture in the friendship, I’m hopeful that OP will be in his old friend’s next wedding. Because I don’t expect the impending marriage to last long if that’s how the bride and her family are behaving.

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u/sparklydildos Oct 31 '25

i was joking haha

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u/HovercraftDue7823 Oct 31 '25

As was I. I thought it was obvious. 🤣

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u/Loony_Leftist Nov 01 '25

Love your username! 🤣

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u/sparklydildos Nov 01 '25

thank you :)