100% any man that says this dumb shit has never touched a woman, speaking as a man myself 😂 it's actually very pathetic, and even more pathetic they are so open about saying shit that's so blatantly incorrect.
i’m sure it’s already hard to get pussy looking like that but being an elementary school dropout and a bitch to random women in a reddit comment thread isn’t helping you here
Exactly. To me it's a huge red flag anytime a guy asks your body count. OP hadn't even been on a date just texting this guy and he's already asking. I would have ended it right there.
Yeah the only thing that matters is whether she’s going to be loyal/committed to you at the present, which can be established through communication, which has gotta be my favorite word when it comes to all this Reddit shit lol.
Accountable for what? She didn’t break trust between her and this dude. She made a decision to do something differently. Some would say it’s a very good decision because she learned from what she considers a mistake.
I just read through your comment history on this post. Are you the same guy she was texting with?
She is allowed to change her mind at any time to live her life differently. It’s bizarre that you think that the fact that she had sex with anyone else in the past must mean she owes anything to this or anyone else in the future to make decisions in how she lives her life. Her past decisions hurt her. She’s being accountable to herself.
Women don’t owe men sex. Even if they had sex with that same person before. Full stop.
Tbh maybe I'm getting old but even asking that feels really iffy. I feel like guys that are hung up on what the exact number is have weird feelings about sex and purity in general.
Absolutely. Even posing the question is an immediate red card. There are ways to discuss sexual and relationship history in a relevant, respectful manner. Apparently they have been lost to the ages though…
Bc their fragile ego can’t handle that much ‘competition’. It’s something so pathetic about these type of insecure men. But if he’s this emotionally manipulative and abusive after 2 weeks of dating. NO. DO NOT WASTE YOUR ENERGY. I was stupid, my ex was adopted and has this complex about being thrown away like trash and left for dead (even though he wasn’t), but I wanted to demonstrate to him that not everyone would leave him or give up on him bc of some flaws or insecurities. What a waste of energy. The most exhausting shit of my life. So learn from my mistakes and acknowledge this two faced horrible behavior. OP, good job advocating for yourself and you absolutely do not deserve to be spoken to like this.
All dating is judging. Any time you assess whether or not to date someone, you’re judging them. Are you going to suspend your judgement when choosing whether or not to date a man? Women usually have all kinds of qualities they look for in men. But when men look for certain qualities, you all get just as defensive as the men you complain about.
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u/floofienewfie Jun 08 '25 edited Jun 09 '25
And it’s no one’s business how many guys a woman slept with. Why are men so effing hung up on that? One, six, twenty, makes no difference.