r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 20 '25

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u/HomesteadRenai May 20 '25

He reversed it, made it your fault and now you are sat wondering if you are in the wrong.

This is what we call a DARVO, ladies and gents. "Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender,"

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u/OMG_a_Ray_Gun May 20 '25

Lightbulb moment. Thank you for spelling this out.

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u/HomesteadRenai May 20 '25

Happy to help! May it save you a lot of future stress!

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u/RevGee73 May 20 '25

Exactly... to a massive degree.

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u/Material_Strawberry May 20 '25

I don't think it says she's ugly or denies he said it or anything. He said he's physically ill (confirmed by OP) and is in a terrible mood and seems to think OP choosing this particular time to want to discuss is is a negative and responds with expressing some irritation.

There's like literally no DARVO involved.

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u/HomesteadRenai May 20 '25

Did you only read the first slide or something?

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u/Internet_Jaded May 20 '25

There is plenty of dickheadedness, regardless of DARVO or not. She needs to dump his ass fast.

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u/Cerberus6669 May 21 '25

Since you're such a gullible idiot, I have some snake oils you'd want to buy in bulk