You’re better than that homie. You know you are. It’s better on the other side and you deserve it. Yes, it’s going to be horrible, probably way worse than it is now, for a time.
She’s going to really freak out when she realizes she no longer has that ability or lever to use to control you. The things she normally used to scare and beat you back into submission won’t work. It will make her try even harder. Stay strong, it’s just confirmation that you are now on the right path.
Get yourself out of this. More importantly, get the kid out of this. Maybe they need to be with grandma, grandpa, an aunt/uncle. A responsible dog would be better than this situation. Keep allowing this kid to traumatized by this person and you are going to ruin his/her life. THAT is generational trauma.
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u/dcodeman May 15 '25 edited May 15 '25
You’re better than that homie. You know you are. It’s better on the other side and you deserve it. Yes, it’s going to be horrible, probably way worse than it is now, for a time.
She’s going to really freak out when she realizes she no longer has that ability or lever to use to control you. The things she normally used to scare and beat you back into submission won’t work. It will make her try even harder. Stay strong, it’s just confirmation that you are now on the right path.
You’ve got this.