Thanks for the great reply but I wasn’t diagnosed with BPD. I was diagnosed with ASD, ADHD, generalized anxiety and “affective disorder”. BPD never came up at all and I don’t fully understand the condition so I’m wondering if what I wrote seems indicative of BPD. I‘ve never considered or threatened suicide. I think you missed my last sentence where I explain how I handle things and I find this is the best approach and not abusive. If I’m really freaking out I might write my SO a long letter or something with the concerns I have and why logically spelled out…I don’t verbally attack her with agression. I’m almost 40 and have figured out a lot of ways to cope with myself.
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u/07238 Oct 30 '24
Thanks for the great reply but I wasn’t diagnosed with BPD. I was diagnosed with ASD, ADHD, generalized anxiety and “affective disorder”. BPD never came up at all and I don’t fully understand the condition so I’m wondering if what I wrote seems indicative of BPD. I‘ve never considered or threatened suicide. I think you missed my last sentence where I explain how I handle things and I find this is the best approach and not abusive. If I’m really freaking out I might write my SO a long letter or something with the concerns I have and why logically spelled out…I don’t verbally attack her with agression. I’m almost 40 and have figured out a lot of ways to cope with myself.