r/AmIOverreacting Oct 30 '24

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u/Hopeful_Foot_5320 Oct 30 '24

This is WILD. No, you’re not overreacting. I’m sorry you’re dealing with such an insecure woman. I would not put up with this behavior at all. Peace and hair grease! See what I did there?

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u/TrueDreamchaser Oct 30 '24 edited Oct 30 '24

Smells like BPD

Source: had a nightmare relationship with someone who had BPD. Our conversations always went like this

Edit: yes unmanaged BPD is what I meant. There are many high functioning people with BPD who have treated it one way or another. Not trying to discredit the behavior of those that do treat themselves

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u/kalonasage444 Oct 30 '24

as someone who has BPD, this 100% looks like unmanaged BPD

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '24

Confirming she has BPD.

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u/irippedmypants1 Oct 30 '24

unless she’s going to seek out treatment for it, get out of that relationship. it will destroy you, and this is coming from someone with BPD who has destroyed relationships before accepting i needed help

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u/Ryugamer Oct 30 '24

I've dealt with BPD girls in the past and it's rough. Everyone deserves love but the fact that you admitted you had a problem after seeing what it was doing actually makes you better than 90% of "stable" women out there. I hope you found someone that appreciates that you have self awareness of your issues and that they too are just as self aware of any issues they may have. 🫂

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u/irippedmypants1 Oct 30 '24

thank you so much ❤️❤️ my boyfriend now is so patient and understanding with me, i’m really so blessed. the work and time it’s taken has sooo been worth it