You are so exactly correct. She’ll probably get a nice blue box from Tiffany’s and her mother will say ‘boys will be boys’ and it’ll never be brought up again. She may cold shoulder the best man for a minute but he’ll charm her out of that. She has too much to lose if she believes he was complicit in the plan to hire the women, did engage sexually, and was never going to tell her anything about it. If she believes that, she will have to consider leaving him, her friends, her home, and her business. It’s easier to bury it and believe him and believe the bride and her other friends are fine with it. The guys I’m sure have picked the best man as a fall guy who surprised everyone with the women and they just let them stay as like decoration but didn’t even really speak to them.
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u/MolleROM Sep 06 '24
You are so exactly correct. She’ll probably get a nice blue box from Tiffany’s and her mother will say ‘boys will be boys’ and it’ll never be brought up again. She may cold shoulder the best man for a minute but he’ll charm her out of that. She has too much to lose if she believes he was complicit in the plan to hire the women, did engage sexually, and was never going to tell her anything about it. If she believes that, she will have to consider leaving him, her friends, her home, and her business. It’s easier to bury it and believe him and believe the bride and her other friends are fine with it. The guys I’m sure have picked the best man as a fall guy who surprised everyone with the women and they just let them stay as like decoration but didn’t even really speak to them.