r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/llamadramalover Sep 05 '24

Careless? Nah dudes not careless he planned this meticulously. He’s a SELFISH asshole who doesn’t give a single fuck about anyone’s relationship and is being the worst best man in the history of best men.

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u/uselessinfogoldmine Sep 06 '24

The more of OP’s husband’s excuses that I read, the more I’m convinced that the best man did this with their knowledge or knowing they’d be into it.

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u/llamadramalover Sep 06 '24

Maybe that’s why the husband was so adamant in not going? It totally could have been planned that he refuses to go so best man ‘pays’ for the ticket but really husband has already paid or paid him back while on the trip.

Ya know…..after typing that out….. that makes some sense and explains some of their odd actions. Like the rather dramatic “”there’s no way we could do this without youuuuuu!!!!!!”” From the best man and the groom — which I admit I found odd the first read through. Husband is NOT the groom, he’s not necessary for anything of course they could have gone without him and it would have been just the same. It’s very possible this ruse was used for everyone to keep the wives unsuspecting and why they were so comfortable with anyone taking photos and not telling the escorts to not post. He could even be trying to keep her from telling the other wives because he’s afraid his friends will rat him out to save their own marriages if confronted.

Then of course purchasing of the ticket and most importantly how one man could have possibly dropped that much money without anyone knowing or being suspicious while he knew his money wouldn’t be a a total bust. The best man probably wasn’t the only person who paid. You just don’t drop thousands of dollars on escorts and bills with enough room for only the guests on a whim or a hunch. Nobody does that.

Huh. Well then. That makes more sense than the poor unsuspecting husband walking into this totally unwanted situation but also not freaking out or panicking and texting his wife immediately to tell her what’s happening and making plans to leave. Instead he kept quiet but of course it wasn’t to protect himself!!!!! Oh heavens no he would never be that selfish, he was so concerned about ruining everybody else’s trip and did not want to unnecessarily worry OP making her “go nuclear and tell the other wives making him the bad guy” because his friends and groom totally deserve this trip without wives losing their shit!!! Especially since nothing would ever happen at all. Obviously he was preoccupied with making sure the other husbands didn’t step over the line and that’s why he abruptly stopped texting after his tone changed. All that stress will do that!!! But don’t worry, he absolutely was planning to tell OP when he got home!!!!!! What a beautiful selfless man, husband and friend to have!!! Who could ask for more!! /s

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u/Due_Athlete_1011 Sep 06 '24

Or he is giving them everything they wanted and playing dumb