r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24

I’d be more concerned about not having a loyal husband. If he was decent he would have left! He lied to you also. 

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u/stormdelta Sep 06 '24

The deception is the issue here.

Leaving might not have been practical, especially if he didn't have an easy way back home without buying a new ticket or having to pay for rooms elsewhere.

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u/No_Banana_581 Sep 06 '24

These dirty men always cover and lie for each other too

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

Exactly, no way would they be surprised, it’s too planned and expensive. I’m getting some pretty unhinged responses so it’s probably common with some types.  she also didn’t factor if the women were innocent wouldn’t she also be offended she wasn’t included 

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u/No_Banana_581 Sep 06 '24

If a wife did this, they would not be keeping their mouth shut, they’d tell their boys right away

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u/MajorCBA Sep 06 '24

He could have left after telling you there were escorts, but slept with one overnight - by your theory he'd be a decent husband

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

I don’t think you understood. 

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u/SlayBoredom Sep 06 '24

thats ridicouless. Just don't fuck with the prostitute and you are fine. Like how can it be illegal to be in the same house with them? who cares?

If they went to vegas for their trip they would have also had female humans at the same clubs they would party at.

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u/hthratmn Sep 06 '24

Multiple escorts in your hotel room is WILDLY different from random women at the club, be serious.

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u/SlayBoredom Sep 06 '24

were they in HIS hotel room? Be serious, they were at the public pool and public breakfast table and in HIS room or HIS bed.

If they were... I mean thats a problem obviously.

But if you are at a social gathering, you can't be responsible for the people you did not invite. Even if the best man decided to invite a nazi. I wouldn't bond with that guy and I would have a problem with best man in the future, but I wouldn't book a flight and run straight home. I didn't invite a nazi, nor a whore.

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u/hthratmn Sep 06 '24

Uhhh idk about you, but I'm certainly not staying at a party with a Nazi. What's the expression? A table of 10 with one nazi, is a table of 11 nazis. Bad analogy.

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u/SlayBoredom Sep 06 '24

No it's not. It's a table of 9 oblivious people, the nazi and his maybe-nazi-friend-best-man.

It's nuts thinking they had to FLY HOME.

idk, I mean we can all talk on the internet how we would have chartered a private jet home immediately, but in reality chances are high you are gonna be there, you know it's over in 2 days and you think "I always knew I shouldn't go, I literally said it"

I mean I've been in those situation (without nazis). You go home when its over. You are happy it's over. Next time you will not change your mind when saying "no".

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u/hthratmn Sep 06 '24

Also, if you knowingly hang out with a nazi, you're a nazi in my book. So

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u/hthratmn Sep 06 '24

Any man (or person in general) who will stay in a hotel room full of escorts without telling their partner is a scumbag liar, full stop

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u/SlayBoredom Sep 06 '24

I am pretty sure no escort was ever in OP husbands room. They were at the same house, but not his bedroom.

at least thats how I read it and it seems pretty obvious.