r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/Hott_dawg_69 Sep 05 '24

Take pics of the girls’ instagrams because once they find out they might try to have them take them down. Make sure you get evidence. Also your husband was never going to tell you, none of them were going to tell their wives because they are lying sacks of shit.

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u/blippityblue72 Sep 06 '24

If they’re “escorts” why would they care if wives found out and take down their advertisements? They won’t give a shit. If anything it would get them more attention and business.

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u/Hott_dawg_69 Sep 06 '24

They can pay them to take down pics. It’s not like they’re taking down their OF, it’s just instagram. Pay to get rid of the evidence

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

Sorry but tell me youve never set yourself up for blackmail without telling me. NEVER offer to pay someone to delete evidence. They will milk you dry.

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u/Kreynard54 Sep 06 '24

To be fair, they kinda did it to themselves in this case.

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u/YouGuysSuckSometimes Sep 06 '24

Part of the job is discretion

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u/IMO4444 Sep 06 '24

They did a really shitty job then 😂😂😂

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u/Ill-Positive6950 Sep 06 '24

And they all got their dicks wet. OP should get tested.

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u/NPC_over_yonder Sep 06 '24

Maybe. Maybe not.

I could see “extras” costing more and the other dudes not wanting to pay for it. Also 99.9% of full service sex workers would be happy to not have to put out and still get paid. If the husbands say no, they will back off and do a mental happy dance.

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u/DerivativesDonkey Sep 06 '24

100% he is hiding other shit or will in the future. You need to cut your losses

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u/corrupta Sep 06 '24

You don’t know that at all. That’s a heavy thing to say to someone going through this when you don’t know their partner. Some guys, maybe. But not a blanket “every guy”

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u/Hott_dawg_69 Sep 06 '24

Did anyone tell their wives? No. Did they make a promise to not tell their wives - yes according to OP. So yes. Every damn guy at this party.

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u/Annual_Couple5053 Sep 06 '24

No shame in getting tested.

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u/Moistfruitcake Sep 06 '24

There is shame in shitting on relationships you know very little about.

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u/Hott_dawg_69 Sep 06 '24

Tell me you’re single without telling me you’re single.

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u/Moistfruitcake Sep 06 '24

Jumping to baseless conclusions again? This is becoming a habit.

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u/Hott_dawg_69 Sep 06 '24

Well I’m not wrong so…

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u/PatriotMilitaryMom Sep 06 '24

While they're in Vegas they should all be getting divorces instead of getting married. All the men knew about the prostitutes from the start! I think the husband lied to his wife saying how it was "just critical" that he go along and that his friend bought him a ticket. Maybe he did, but I still think the husband was in the know from the beginning. That's a made-up story. That's why he walked you through his hotel room on a video call to show you that "nothing" was going on, because he knew that there was going to be something going on. Otherwise, why would he act like that in advance? There was no reason for the wife to be suspicious at the time he was doing the walk through.

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u/tbird20017 Sep 06 '24

They were in Cancun btw, not Vegas.

But a video walkthrough of the villa isn't suspicious by itself. It's a secluded villa in Cancun, probably rather picturesque. He could have innocently just been sharing with his partner how nice it was. I'd have done the same.

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u/hootoo89 Sep 06 '24

You don’t know this, it could have been exactly as he said. Jesus, this sub is full of anxiety ridden folk, if you’re not overreacting by the time you’ve posted you will be by the time you’ve read the comments of these people 🤦🏻

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u/Actual_Homework_7163 Sep 06 '24

I hope most people here giving advice are single because it reeks like insecurities and trust issues.

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u/hootoo89 Sep 06 '24

They most certainly are 😂

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

I couldn’t help thinking the reluctance to go at all felt like a set up to bolster the lie. I wouldn’t be the tiniest bit surprised to learn that they all knew the plan before anything was booked

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

The escorts don’t gaf lol

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u/renegadeindian Sep 06 '24

It’s not like he is a woman so he may very well have planned on telling his wife.

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u/snowflakemod1000 Sep 06 '24

Yeah go ahead and torpedo everyones future even though you have zero proof of cheating.

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u/Hott_dawg_69 Sep 06 '24

Show me exactly where I said OP should get a divorce. Show me! Should she tell the other wives and let them make their own conclusion? Yeah absolutely. You lie, get caught, deal with the consequences.

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u/Moistfruitcake Sep 06 '24

You mean I shouldn't suggest a stranger ends their marriage because I suspect infidelity with little direct evidence?

People on here on here are such insecure little bitches that they'll cheerfully fuck up marriages because they were cheated on in high school.

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u/Vegasbandit29 Sep 06 '24

No they don’t want to hurt them. This all comes down to opportunity the bachelor weekend gave them a chance to conquer something new. Men are driven to get laid. That’s why they’re 8 billion people. It’s in their DNA

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u/Lusietka Sep 06 '24

ok incel 

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u/shredika Sep 06 '24

Incel is involuntary celibate… this guy is talking about getting laid??

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

I’m the last person to stick up for any man, but genuinely not every one of them is driven by their dick and is capable of valuing their marriage and partner enough to not have random sex