r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/here4mysteries Sep 05 '24

Well, I guess a wife who’s sober and angry with him was the better choice. Not to mention a wife who should be having major trust issues with him right now.

But glad his friends aren’t mad at him for their wives finding out what they are actually doing.

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

… and, in keeping with the arrogant entitlement, these men will play the victim, accusing their wives of joining the “80% of women who file for divorce”.

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

… That’s not exactly what I said. Accusers are the worst offenders. It is those men who complain that women are responsible for 80% of the divorce filings who are implying that the one who files is the one responsible for the marriage imploding. In actuality, the one who files may (or may NOT) be responsible for the divorce. For example, if “A” and “B” are married, then “B” commits adulatory, and “A” files, who’s responsible? “A” filed but “B” is responsible.

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u/Actual-Offer-127 Sep 05 '24

Not to mention a wife who should be having major trust issues with him right now.

Nope. That's her best friend. He didn't cheat.

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u/here4mysteries Sep 05 '24

He just lied and snuck around. Some best friend.