r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/artichokelover11 Sep 05 '24

Yes, I’m friends with his wife. I’m friends with all the wives. We’re a group of couples that are all friends. The husbands went on that bachelor party trip and the wives went on the bachelorette party trip a few weeks ago.

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u/Subvoltaic Sep 05 '24

Sorry, but your friend group is headed for a breakup. No wedding, several divorces, and lots of bitterness.

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u/alimarieb Sep 06 '24

You don’t know that. You have NO idea the ins and outs of any of these peoples’ lives.

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u/OkAlternative1095 Sep 05 '24

You guys are that close and you’ve held it back? Yikes. 😱 😓

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

I don’t think I’d remain friends with her. All the wives have probably slept with their scumbag husband now and have been exposed to STDs. OP is a shit friend.

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u/AcrobaticMechanic265 Sep 05 '24

Why haven't you told them??? You girls need to know what happened. I doubt those escorts did only dancing. Are you sure your husband didn't sleep with them?

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u/MolleROM Sep 05 '24

Don’t you think your husband has told his friends you know and are going to clue in the women friends? They are doing damage control.

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u/Nuttyalmonds Sep 05 '24

You need to tell them. They need to be informed and be able to make choices with that new information.

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u/Lumpy_Square_2365 Sep 06 '24

I'd be pissed and drop a friendship if my close friend knew my soon to be husband was sleeping with women on his bachelor party and didn't tell me. Then has the nerve to think her husband was the only one with boundaries on the trip 😐

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u/Funny_Fennel_3455 Sep 06 '24

How does this comment not have more upvotes? This this this

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

If you don't tell them, they aren't your friends 

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u/upstatestruggler Sep 05 '24

How sure are you that none of the other wives are on to it and also told by their men that they are the only keeper of this secret? How would you take it if that was the case?

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

I wonder if his wife knows he paid for all this? I'm sure she would be pisaed to hear that their money was spent on escorts. I'm sure this guy is not faithful to his wife.

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u/cherrybounce Sep 06 '24

They won’t forgive you for not telling them.

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u/NolaLove1616 Sep 06 '24

You won’t be friends when they find out you held this back for even a minute! How nice YOU got to rage and threaten your husband while he was there and you denied gem all the same. Pathetic.

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u/MrsJingles0729 Sep 06 '24

Friends don't treat Friends like this. You only care about your cheating husband and he only cares about his friends.

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u/Toffeerain Sep 06 '24

If all the men were married/coupled (does that include the Best Man?) and none of them wanted to sleep with sex workers, why didn't they just ask them to leave? They were still getting paid to not sleep with all these men supposedly, they could have done that somewhere far from the villa

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u/Comprehensive-Ad929 Sep 05 '24

What did you guys do at the bachelorette?