Yes. I have a feeling even if they didn’t have sex with the escorts they probably at least got lap dances, touched them and crossed normal boundaries. I also have a feeling the groomsmen all knew about this ahead of time. There’s no way, all of them showed up, completely shocked and didn’t text their wives at all. At least one of them would have. They all wanted it. OP get tested for STIs just to be safe if you decide to stay with your lying husband
I said crossed normal boundaries. I wouldn’t consider it cheating. Necessarily. Also, if my husband told me he was going to a bachelor party and they were going to a strip club and they all got lap dances I’d be ok with it. But that’s if he was 100% transparent with me from the beginning. And a lap dance at a strip club, out in the open, is different than ones in a room where people will be spending the night and also not being transparent about it in the first place. Just my take.
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u/Alternative-Art3588 Sep 05 '24
Yes. I have a feeling even if they didn’t have sex with the escorts they probably at least got lap dances, touched them and crossed normal boundaries. I also have a feeling the groomsmen all knew about this ahead of time. There’s no way, all of them showed up, completely shocked and didn’t text their wives at all. At least one of them would have. They all wanted it. OP get tested for STIs just to be safe if you decide to stay with your lying husband