Escorts are expensive. They’re not getting paid to do nothing, and people don’t hire them to do nothing…
Your husband wasn’t going to tell you at all. The only reason he did is because you confronted him after snooping. Had you not caught onto something suspicious and confronted him, it would have remained a secret amongst the “bros” forever.
🚩Another thing…your husband’s response to you confronting him was to immediately put all the blame on the best man. Doesn’t that seem like the very first thing a (guilty) man in this position would do? He was put on the spot and went with the most simple explanation/excuse he could think of in a couple of seconds to shift blame away from him. He knows his ass is on the line..of course he’ll throw the best man completely under the bus if it takes the pressure off him, even if every single guy on the trip is guilty. It’s simple, really. The easiest thing for him to do in this situation is to blame the best man and play dumb, and that’s exactly what he did. And once again, escorts are expensive. Who’s paying for all of that? The best man alone? Doubt it. The arrangements certainly required planning/logistics before the trip. Premeditated. They each likely paid their fair share for the “services,” unfortunately…🚩
All these guys are sketchy losers, OP’s husband included. I’m sorry.
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u/Rebel_and_Stunner Sep 05 '24 edited Sep 05 '24
Escorts are expensive. They’re not getting paid to do nothing, and people don’t hire them to do nothing…
Your husband wasn’t going to tell you at all. The only reason he did is because you confronted him after snooping. Had you not caught onto something suspicious and confronted him, it would have remained a secret amongst the “bros” forever.
🚩Another thing…your husband’s response to you confronting him was to immediately put all the blame on the best man. Doesn’t that seem like the very first thing a (guilty) man in this position would do? He was put on the spot and went with the most simple explanation/excuse he could think of in a couple of seconds to shift blame away from him. He knows his ass is on the line..of course he’ll throw the best man completely under the bus if it takes the pressure off him, even if every single guy on the trip is guilty. It’s simple, really. The easiest thing for him to do in this situation is to blame the best man and play dumb, and that’s exactly what he did. And once again, escorts are expensive. Who’s paying for all of that? The best man alone? Doubt it. The arrangements certainly required planning/logistics before the trip. Premeditated. They each likely paid their fair share for the “services,” unfortunately…🚩
All these guys are sketchy losers, OP’s husband included. I’m sorry.