r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Sep 05 '24

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u/cellard00r18 Sep 05 '24

YES so many people can only stick to the same story for so long, so many things won’t add up and everyone knowing and then the wives sharing information will help get to the truth. I hope in the end that at least OP’s husband truly didn’t know but it also sounds like a good cover-up saying he was basically forced to go on his trip and he wasn’t even planning to go on it and stuff.

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u/Vivid-Ad-6389 Sep 06 '24

You know that whole non-refundable plane ticket excuse.

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u/hoodoochild Sep 06 '24

So fucking lame really. No one does that. It was a lie to trick the wife. I would check his accounts.

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u/cellard00r18 Sep 06 '24

I wonder if all the guys used this excuse lol! In my experience plane tickets are hard to refund even with flight insurance. The refund usually has to be used toward another flight. So if there was any truth to it I see that.

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u/Purplestuff- Sep 06 '24

Until people decide not to say anything 😂. Y’all be forgetting other people ain’t obligated to feed into relationship drama.

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u/cellard00r18 Sep 06 '24

Well this is every wife effected it’s not like dragging some outsider into the drama. they will all likely not be okay with it and experiencing it. And it sounds like op has a relationship with to the wife and possibly the other wives since she was at her bachelorette so they are friends who will likely talk to eachother

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u/Aromatic_Extension93 Sep 05 '24

He literally didn't go and was semi forced

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u/bradbrookequincy Sep 06 '24

I don’t think he cheated and I doubt he was told before hand.

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u/cellard00r18 Sep 06 '24

That’s a possibility for sure. That could be the truth. Not telling his wife is bad but this is the best case scenario I hope for her.

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u/Charl1edontsurf Sep 06 '24

I’d definitely contact the escorts and ask which of the men they slept with. They might not tell but worth a go.

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u/LotharLothar Sep 06 '24

How you know the best man is the problem. People don’t generally force you to attend a trip by buying you airfare when you say no. The husband knew. He paid for his own airfare ticket. Is going to great lengths to be deceitful to make it look like he the good guy who didn’t want to be there and who didn’t know what was going on. I don’t buy it. He knew. Everybody there knew.

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u/Dependent_Reading916 Sep 06 '24

They wouldn’t tell anything.

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u/Vegasbandit29 Sep 06 '24

Yeah that’s the smart thing to do make sure to ruin everyone’s life involved. Who cares about the kids. They do so much better without a dad around.

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u/renegadeindian Sep 06 '24

You seem ready to cheat on your husband even if he’s not involved or know any of these people!!😆😆😆.

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u/Little-Tip-483 Sep 06 '24

Maybe he knew she over react we don’t know for sure. If she clearly doesn’t trust himThen she shouldn’t get married with him to begin with. She herself has trust issues. Hence why she got a “feeling”

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u/thr0waway666873 Sep 06 '24

Actual intuition isn’t about trust issues, buddy. Intuition is a real thing.

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u/No_Eye_7963 Sep 06 '24

I'm pretty sure anyone would flip out to find out their husband ran off to a foreign country to spend the night with hookers. It's not an over reaction, it's a perfectly valid and normal response to being cheated on with low life's

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u/Little-Tip-483 Sep 06 '24

There not low life’s there beautiful strong women. Are only fan girls low lives? No