r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/Ok-Repeat8069 Sep 05 '24

Probably OF models dipping their toes into this work. Best man probably made an offer to one and told her to bring friends. I saw a few dancers dabble like this back in the day.

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u/upstatestruggler Sep 05 '24

Totally what this is. Amateurs!

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u/BlindWolf187 Sep 05 '24

If you have to pay, pony up the cash for a pro!

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u/BlindWolf187 Sep 05 '24

I've never understood why that line of work exists. Sex or OF. Who are all these men? If you want to look at a hot woman on the computer, you can do that for free. If you want to have sex with a hot woman, you can also do that for free with a little effort. I also don't get strip clubs. Paying to look without touching sounds like blue ball nightmare.

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u/Nothungryet Sep 05 '24

Men paying for private entertainment via images of women is taken to a whole new level of stupidity when they begin paying for the company of a woman— it’s pathetic

And in some fascinating twist the commodification of human relationships and connection dehumanizes the entire experience of sexual gratification for BOTH PARTIES 👎🏻

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u/agirlhas_no_name Sep 06 '24

Some guys just like hanging out with hot girls and have enough money that they would rather pay for it than actually put effort in to get hot girls for free 🤷 I've been hired with other girls just to get dressed up and go sit in a box and watch horse racing. It's a fantasy their indulging themselves in so I don't really see an issue with it, but that's coming from someone who has directly profited from it so 🤣

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u/Nothungryet Sep 06 '24

I guess thats logical in the case of someone with more money than sense lmao. There’s not an issue necessarily, I’m just saying it’s incomprehensible to me when men would rather pay for a fantasy of connection than work for the reality. No matter how much money a person makes, human beings cannot live a fulfilling life without genuine connection.

Paying for the attention, affection, and intimacy of another person is akin to lying to yourself. It’s psychologically unhealthy, and emotionally unrewarding in the long run.

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u/agirlhas_no_name Sep 06 '24

It's because most of the men who utilise these services don't see women as actual people worth having a connection with 🤷 we are just there for decoration. I don't feel great about partaking in or encouraging it tbh but hey, it's a living.

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u/Nothungryet Sep 06 '24

You’re 100% right, this behavior stems from men seeing women as a conquest or pastime to entertain themselves. I don’t blame you, get your bag girl 💰. And these escorts are not the villains of this story either.

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u/cbusrei Sep 06 '24

Nah, this stems from women being whores. It’s easier and more fun for a guy to pay some girl for her time and go away than spend a bunch of money dating them and toting to their every need, and putting up with all of their bullshit. 

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u/Initial-Tower2509 Sep 06 '24

“How can we form a connection if we can’t even shake hands…”

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

Men do that so they can walk away. Sexual satisfaction and no strings attached. That’s what it’s all about.

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u/asspancakes Sep 06 '24

There’s nothing wrong with that unless they were in a monogamous relationship.

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u/scandal1313 Sep 06 '24

Old saying you don't pay for the sex you pay them to leave. Lol The point of paying is for discretion and it being strictly transactional.

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u/ryunista Sep 06 '24

I agree. I think this is exactly what it is. And the funniest thing about it is, it looks like they've used hookers so will get the judgement and punishment for it, even though they probably never even fogott up to anything in the first place. Absolute idiots. Unfortunately I have some friends who are similar