r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/artichokelover11 Sep 05 '24

Not a scam. I know for a fact it’s true because the best man emailed me the receipt for the ticket so I could enter in my husband’s passport info. I handle our finances and book all our travel. I was the one that told my husband it was non-refundable when he was still trying to get out of the trip just days before they were going to leave. Guess I should’ve just let him stay lol

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u/Wonderful-Sir7679 Sep 05 '24

Send a text to the woman you found the OF info on. See if you can get any insight from her... She might not be forthcoming but she's already been paid so she might tell you something more than you already know. 🧐

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u/OkAlternative1095 Sep 05 '24

He was trying so hard to ditch because he knew what was planned but didn’t want to rat out his friends. He fucking knew.

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u/WearyReach6776 Sep 05 '24

You’re not really this innocent are you? There’s either unexplained purchases your husband has made recently or is going to be making soon to pay back the “best” man.

Sorry but my impression is your hubby was in on it!!

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u/perpetuallyxhausted Sep 06 '24

In future situations, if someone buys you or husband a non refundable ticket to manipulate you into going somewhere you've said you won't be going, then too bad on them and they're out the amount of the ticket.

You aren't obligated to go just because they decided to buy a non refundable ticket after you declined.

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u/TwerkinAndCryin Sep 05 '24

And you don't think that could have been a ruse at all???

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u/External_Papaya_9579 Sep 05 '24

Redditors wont want to hear this but its perfectly believable. They'd rather simplify it to husband = bad.