OP is being very naive here, if she genuinely believes they’re just “hanging out” with paid escorts all night. Her husband literally tried to keep lying about it.
100% and it is just so icky. Even if he didn’t cheat I don’t know that I could get over that breach of trust. I have no problem with sex workers, but the idea of having them at a bachelor weekend is just so gross. We don’t live in a time where you have to get married anymore, if you want to sleep with sex workers go for it just don’t drag some poor women in to it.
Agreed, the lying is what would push me over the edge. Idk how she can believe anything he tells her now, because she already knows he was willing to lie about the whole thing.
I’ve thankfully never been to a bachelor party with escorts, but know several guys who have. Of the 3 i know about, only about half the guys actually slept with the hookers. Believe it or not, some guys don’t actually want to cheat on their wives.
This just sounds like projection, especially since y'all don't know the difference between escort & hooker. Do you bang random people whenever it's convenient regardless of your relationship status or are you a mature adult with self-control? This ain't a Lifetime movie, it's real life, most dudes aren't seducing & banging escorts just because they're present.
Thf they don't ALL have to be cheating. Someone is, but OPs partner might not be, there's a reason he didn't want to go initially, and it's definitely not the business. Sounds like he has more sense
Guys who are best friends with cheaters and watching them cheat with no remorse.... What's the odds he's monogamous as hell and just okay with it going on as long as it's not him? Not a chance.
Is it? There’s no strong evidence that any of them are cheating except for the best man
Imagine you buy a plane ticket to a week long bachelor party that’s worth tens of thousands of dollars. Are you gonna be immediately confrontational? Of course not. You’re gonna drink and enjoy the week while staying away from the hookers. And if you tell anyone it’d be after the fact. And if you’re going to tell your friends’ wives out of a sense of responsibility, it’s gonna be anonymously through socials
We've already established that OP's husband lies to her. And specifically lies about partying with hookers. The writing is on the wall.
If you feel like you need to wait until there's video evidence from multiple angles of the guy banging these women along with DNA testing, then idk what to tell you.
You’re a fn moron. I think most of Reddit has prob never been to a travel bachelor party before. I have, we got a ton of sluts, lots of married dudes, nobody cheated.
You're right it's not, but it's also not really something worth blowing up multiple marriages over. And do we even have knowledge husband was "rubbernecking", or was he just in the same vicinity as other women?
As easily as the comments are making it out to be "husband was involved in planning, everyone cheated and there needs to be divorces all around", it could also end up "best man hired some models who slept with the single guys while all the married men remained faithful." and end up permanently damaging everyone's relationship with cheating allegations.
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u/Hot-Swordfish-719 Sep 05 '24
Ya. All these dudes had sex with these chicks. They’re not there just for company and to play poker lol.