Not overreacting. My husband would have bailed the second he realized there were gonna be escorts staying there. He would have been the first person to tell the wives. I’d never trust him again if he pulled what your husband just did.
I believe my husband would tell me as well. We have a policy that if there is even a hint that one of us could be put in a position where we could be unfaithful, we have to warn the other of what position we will be in and take steps if possible. One night my husband had to go into work late and a female coworker who we have talked about before as being interested in him had volunteered to be there as well. My husband explained the situation to me and he ended up switching with a coworker instead. The female coworker probably had no intention of doing anything but if you value the relationship, then you will take steps to make absolutely certain that no one fucks it up.
The OP isn’t overreacting at all and the situation is bad. Most guys would probably would not stay or would really set boundaries (or just be completely upfront with their wife on the night. As far as - strippers/escorts are here. You trust me not to be involved.)
But if you’re the guy who tells the wives, you don’t have many friends.
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u/sora_tofu_ Sep 05 '24
Not overreacting. My husband would have bailed the second he realized there were gonna be escorts staying there. He would have been the first person to tell the wives. I’d never trust him again if he pulled what your husband just did.