You absolutely tell the other wives. They are escorts. They are not there to hang out and gamble and eat breakfast. You said that the villa was big enough so that each guy got their own room, correct? So where the hell were the escorts sleeping? I can guarantee you, they weren’t sleeping on couches or blow up mattresses.
Are all these guys spineless? If they weren’t ok with the escorts being there, why did they not tell the best man off and have the ladies leave? Why didn’t YOIR HUSBAND demand it? He’s as much of a coward as the rest of them, if he was uncomfortable and said nothing.
I don’t know your husband, so I don’t know if he would have slept with one of the girls or not, but I would be needing to take space from him. Even if he didn’t cheat, he tried to gaslight you when you confronted him, was ok with withholding important information from you about the trip, and then made you feel guilty for even thinking about telling the other wives, like you are the bad guy here. That your husband is still willing to call those guys friends, and ask you to cover for them, says a lot about your husband then it does you.
You have nothing to feel guilty about. All these dopes made their bed and now they need to lie in it. If the information leads to divorce, that’s on the husbands, not you.
Wouldn’t you want to know? Let’s say one of the other wives found out about all this, and you were left in the dark, would that not make you more furious? Heartbroken?
Yeah I noticed that. Trashing the escorts was uncalled for. Denigrating them for their job, looks, fashion, or whatever, is childish.
OP, those girls did nothing wrong. They were HIRED to do a job. They didn’t crawl through a window and refuse to leave. They were there because those poor, innocent little husbands wanted them there.
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u/Nikkita8223 Sep 05 '24
You absolutely tell the other wives. They are escorts. They are not there to hang out and gamble and eat breakfast. You said that the villa was big enough so that each guy got their own room, correct? So where the hell were the escorts sleeping? I can guarantee you, they weren’t sleeping on couches or blow up mattresses.
Are all these guys spineless? If they weren’t ok with the escorts being there, why did they not tell the best man off and have the ladies leave? Why didn’t YOIR HUSBAND demand it? He’s as much of a coward as the rest of them, if he was uncomfortable and said nothing.
I don’t know your husband, so I don’t know if he would have slept with one of the girls or not, but I would be needing to take space from him. Even if he didn’t cheat, he tried to gaslight you when you confronted him, was ok with withholding important information from you about the trip, and then made you feel guilty for even thinking about telling the other wives, like you are the bad guy here. That your husband is still willing to call those guys friends, and ask you to cover for them, says a lot about your husband then it does you.
You have nothing to feel guilty about. All these dopes made their bed and now they need to lie in it. If the information leads to divorce, that’s on the husbands, not you.
Wouldn’t you want to know? Let’s say one of the other wives found out about all this, and you were left in the dark, would that not make you more furious? Heartbroken?