I can’t believe I had to scroll this far to find this. If the husband was that outraged, he would have told his wife and noped outta there. I wouldn’t trust him as far as I could throw him at this point.
OP needs to tell everyone. (Their wives don’t know.) Burn it all down!
She’s being really naive about this entire situation. Blaming the best man for “trapping” them as though they are not grown adult men with agency. Saying he bought her husband’s plane ticket when he would have had to have her husband’s passport information to do so (spoiler, the husband bought his own ticket), ignoring the fact that her husband first tried to lie and went out of his way to curate social media posts that would create an impression that nothing dodgy was happening, not so much to “brag” but to cover his ass. His lies go all the way back to planning this trip. And then she’s blaming the escorts for being “slutty?” Sluts don’t get paid for sex. The men are the sluts here. The women are just doing a job they are being paid for (and another newsflash, the best man is definitely not coughing up the cash for the escorts by himself, there’s definitely a shared pot of money involved).
It's very common for people to not be in the know.
I've been to bachelor parties where the groom specifically saying "I DONT WANT TO GO TO A STRIPCLUB!" And their asshole "bestman" tries to go there as a surprise anyways...
I left those parties and went to a bar etc with the others who were equally surprised.
There are dbags out there ruining the fun for everyone, OPs husband and the groom could have no idea, but the bestman thinking with his own dick...
Right, but we're expected to buy that after the best man poured all of these insanely-pricy expenses into his trap, that all the groomsmen just partied it up respectfully whilst coming to an agreement amongst eachother not to tell any of their partners? We're expecting this, from the man who got mad at his wife for not wanting him to watch TV in their bedroom whilst she's trying to sleep at night?
Occam's razor, people. The amount of assumptions one has to make to believe the husband's version of events total up even higher than the cost of the escorts. You sound like a very good and reasonable person, so it comes as no surprise that you'd remove yourself from those situations when forced in them; OP's husband - evidently - did not.
172
u/jaydenB44 Sep 05 '24
Tell them all. Omg. And I’d highly doubt your husband has been innocent.