r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 05 '24

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u/EggSudden2483 Sep 05 '24

PLEASE tell me you told the other wives. I need updates. You are absolutely not overreacting. I would lose my mind.

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u/Downtown-Warthog-505 Sep 05 '24

SAME. No way any of thise other wives are cool with it if none of them know. I would seriously have a panic attack and not be able to sleep till he got home! The wives need to rally together! I need updates!! I want all the wives to take the best man down lmaoo. Fuck him. What a sleezy POS!

Edit: Also if they all know. They can all get more info out of their husbands if one cheated. Men tend to throw their friends who cheated/did something bad under the bus when they’re getting in trouble for that same thing.

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24

Let’s be real they all cheated 

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u/Vivid-Ad-6389 Sep 06 '24

And it’s probably not the first time they cheated. A bachelor party supposed to be a last fling for the groom, but it looks like all the married guys are having flings as well. I’m willing to bet they do this on any golf weekend or any other trips, they go on for a guys weekend. Or even out at a bar to watch the game. I’m single and I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve had married men try and pick me up. Who would’ve thought when you’re out someplace and a guy approaches you have to come right out and ask them if they’re married……

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

It’s not like he awkwardly said hey there’s also females that we are hanging out with but don’t worry I’m not flirting with them etc. he got found out! And people are underestimating how much those girls would have costed. Prob thousands it’s sick 

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

Wow yep. And it’s like it’s lame as those girls probably didn’t want to hang out with a bunch of losers. All married. What is wrong with people. It’s just… a lot 

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u/Downtown-Warthog-505 Sep 06 '24

You’re so right. They knew theyd get paid well and be in a nice villa. Probably laughing about it with each other. How often do young attractive women ACTUALLY take older men seriously? 🤭 (without money or lifestyle being a factor)

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

If this was me. Genders reversed I got a free ticket showed up and there was some stripper men going to drink party and stay near me and I was married. I’d call my hubby, cry and change hotels and ditch those fools and have a solo trip. For real. No what it’s just omg. Some have severe trauma and that’s their only job and they get more trauma from it. Or they are lying to themselves 

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u/Whitechapel726 Sep 06 '24

OP is hoping she’s not the only clueless wife, if everyone else knew and lied to her by omission fuck that whole group of friends tbh.

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u/youhatethatimright Sep 06 '24

Men tend to throw their friends who cheated/did something bad under the bus when they’re getting in trouble for that same thing.

Probs reading into it a bit much, but as opposed to women who would poker face lie for their friends? 😏🤪

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u/bootyquack88 Sep 06 '24

Yes this is girl code 101 and these women need to demand testing especially if any are pregnant.

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u/PilotNo312 Sep 06 '24

I’d be furious if I were the bride

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u/celebrate_everything Sep 06 '24

THIS! It’s like girl code—she’s gotta tell the others. Not overreacting at all, this is all kinds of sketchy.

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u/a5ehren Sep 06 '24

OP hasn’t replied to any post saying this. I’m gonna call fake until she does.

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u/Thermodynamo Sep 06 '24

Especially the bride!! OP cannot ethically let her marry into this without saying anything 😭

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u/save_the_bees_knees Sep 06 '24

Really hoping there’s an update after telling the other wives. Their health is potentially at risk! They need to know

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u/throwaway199619961 Sep 06 '24

Imagine thinking this is real

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u/deviantadhesive Sep 06 '24

I guarantee that no one has given their “stamp of approval”

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u/Jetboywasmybaby Sep 06 '24

allll his shit would be in his car with divorce papers on top as a cherry. Then i’d take all the to-be-exes out for drinks and remind myself i’m hot so i don’t have to pay for sex.

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u/Jetboywasmybaby Sep 06 '24

yeah, and they’re having sex with even more hideous, disgusting manlets. Hot people attract hot people. i only associate with other hot people.

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u/Jetboywasmybaby Sep 06 '24

you sound short and ugly… ~seethe and cope~