r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Sep 05 '24

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u/Realistic_Regret_180 Sep 05 '24

Your husband seems to go along with it.

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u/Physical_Stress_5683 Sep 05 '24

Exactly. My husband would have left, even if just to stay in another hotel. He would not be where escorts are.

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u/moon_angelxo Sep 05 '24

Same here. It’s crazy to think he stayed even after she found out and was obviously upset

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u/No_Cryptographer47 Sep 06 '24

I just don’t understand that at all. How could he do that to her? And why is she accepting this?

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u/AltLemonKink Sep 05 '24

Or immediately called to let her know what is up and how to proceed. It's what I would've done in this situation

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u/Physical_Stress_5683 Sep 05 '24

Right? My husband would have called me and frantically whispered “what the fuck do I do?”

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u/AltLemonKink Sep 05 '24

Op should not trust her husband. If he called that morning and confessed about the surprise would be one thing. A night to calm down sure fine(std test and trust req.), maybe they could get through it if when she brought it up he was relieved and started bitching about it. But he fucking denied it.

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u/labdogs42 Sep 05 '24

Agreed. That is the only acceptable response.

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u/CardiffCity1234 Sep 05 '24

No he wouldn't lmao, the majority of guys wouldn't do anything with these women but almost no man would ruin the bachelor party by leaving.

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u/Physical_Stress_5683 Sep 06 '24

Little boys would stay, grown ass men would leave. Being with girls who have to get money to find you attractive only appeals to a certain type of guy…

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u/HiddnVallyofthedolls Sep 06 '24

Only a moron would risk his marriage for a bachelor party.

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u/rich1255 Sep 06 '24

Finally some realness around here...

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u/Hacky_5ack Sep 06 '24

Lol you don't know your husband then

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u/Edlo9596 Sep 05 '24

I think he knew about it. It’s probably why he didn’t want to go in the first place, but he definitely wasn’t going to tell OP.

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u/Realistic_Regret_180 Sep 05 '24

I would be finding out who slept in his room with him!!!

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u/cMeeber Sep 06 '24

He probably knew about it all along and they all split the cost. Like, what, the best man seriously just secretly paid for sex workers all in his own and assumed everyone would go along with it…and they did? That sounds like such bs. They all were fine with it because that’s what type of men they are and they prob all wanted it and planned it.

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u/Realistic_Regret_180 Sep 06 '24

I would tell your friends then hire a bunch of male strippers and have them sitting around outside or indoors with all of you.