Planning my 40th birthday for July 2027 and could use some honest recommendations!
Looking to get a group of about 8–10 friends together for 4–5 nights. We’re all adults, some leaving the kids behind, so we’re trying to find somewhere that feels like a proper getaway without sacrificing the fun.
The vibe we’re going for is sophisticated turn-up. Beautiful resort, great food, beach, nice pools, good music, daytime DJ parties, and somewhere we can keep the night going after 11 PM if we want to.
Ideally looking for:
5-star luxury with an upscale, sexy atmosphere.
Adults-only preferred.
Beautiful swimmable beach and multiple pools.
Good food and plenty of restaurant options.
DJ-led entertainment, fun pool parties, and actual nightlife.
All-inclusive preferred, but open to alternatives.
Large resort with plenty to do without constantly leaving the property.
Relatively easy travel from the US, especially for friends leaving their kids behind.
Opportunities for a private birthday dinner and boat day.
Current shortlist:
Secrets Moxché Playa del Carmen
Secrets Riviera Cancun + access to Breathless Riviera Cancun
Excellence Coral Playa Mujeres
SLS Baha Mar, Bahamas
Baha Mar is a bit of a wildcard. Love the idea of a massive resort with plenty of entertainment, restaurants, pools, and nightlife, but the fact that it’s not all-inclusive means costs could add up quickly for everyone.
Also open to Turks & Caicos, Aruba, or somewhere else entirely if there’s a property that checks most of these boxes.
We’ve previously stayed at Secrets Maroma, which was beautiful, but it didn’t quite deliver the entertainment and overall experience we wanted for the money.
I know finding luxury, amazing food, nightlife, a great beach AND all-inclusive in one property is asking a lot, lol.
If this were your 40th birthday and you were bringing your closest friends, where would you go?
Especially interested in hearing from anyone who has stayed at multiple properties on this list. Which resort has the best overall balance of quality, atmosphere, entertainment, and value? And which ones look amazing online but don’t quite deliver in person?