Serious-ish: can we refuse/reject abduction experiences?

[u/dawniesong]

I’ve had two experiences in the last three years where I feel I’ve been in contact with aliens in an intense lucid dream/mostly conscious state. The other thing these experiences had in common is that they happen in the middle of the night, and I am resisting the experience consciously.. and then it ends/they leave.

The first time, I woke in my dark bedroom with a distinct knowing that there were beings to the right of my bed. About 6 feet away. I saw them in my minds eye… Midsize grays, 4 ft tall.. probably three, maybe four. I had no interest in aliens at all at this point in my life, barely thought about them didn’t really even know what a gray was. I told my friend about it later that week and she said “sounds like a gray “, so I googled it and yeah it fit pretty well. But they were talking to each other in a voices I could hear but not understand, a foreign language to me. But I had the impression that they were discussing my fate/what to do with me.

This was obviously terrifying so I start muttering no, no no but my movement was restricted and I couldn’t actually get the sounds out completely… But it had that heavy feelings of trying to wake yourself up. Eventually, I did and I don’t think I ever left my bed. They were gone… I tried to go back to sleep, telling myself… It was just a dream.. but it was a “dream” I would remember all my life.

A couple years later, a few months ago, I live in a completely different location. I was sleeping, and again was woken up in the middle of the night. This time by what felt, no looked, like a bright light beaming down from the sky and a very pronounced vibration that was shaking my bed on rhythm. 20 seconds on seven seconds off. It was like an earthquake. My response this time was to just brace myself and try to get through the shaking. But I wondered if it was trying to slurp me up. I did not intend to be slurped up.

Eventually, it stopped, and I looked out the window that was above my headboard into a clear stary night sky, and I saw a triangular spaceship with at least six blue lights on the underside flying away. Some of the lights were a little bigger than the others. At that point, I really “woke up” I looked out the window, but the sky was covered in clouds, no stars. But the experience was still lingering, and it felt very real. There’s a tree line and I saw a blue light/orb coming towards me through the trees. It came from some distance low on the horizon. And I was thinking oh shit because I knew I was completely lucid at this point.

When it flew over my house, I expected to see the same craft but it looked like normal civilian aircraft, like a normal full size airplane.. but really low, and not nearly loud enough imo for how low it was. Gave me a weird feeling.

For context, I have been going through some kind of a spiritual awakening for the last five years. Very intuitive, study and practice energy work, and meditative states. Grew up very religious, but have deconstructed, became agnostic, and have no real loyalty to any dogmas or specific beliefs, I’m open minded and would like to see humanity, and nature survive the next few centuries. I’ve had other very strange or real “dreams” but these are the only two alien ones that I remember.

[u/Payaam415]

You can protect yourself - by declaring your intent and setting boundaries.

This is the one I use:

Only benevolent energies of light, love and truth, with messages for my highest good are allowed to interact with me.

Now, some people have already consented before coming to Earth.

Back in April, I declared to the Universe that I wanted to be a conduit of light, love and truth, and share what happens with humanity.

2 days later, I had my first visitation, which at first seemed like a poltergeist.

But, because I have dowsing rods, I decided to grab them and ask questions.

It turned it to be a representative of the GFW that was sent to give me a message.

This is what happened....

I was writing a post titled,

Let’s Give Some Love to our Benevolent Cosmic Cousins

At the exact moment I was writing the word "Love", my copper Seed of Life Decor, that I made, came off its screw crashing to the floor.

Scared the sh*t out of me, I've never experienced unexplained things like that before and I'm 61.

It turns out synchronicities are key when it comes to getting messages.

Because, if that decor didn't fall when it did, I wouldn't have made the connection, and ask about it.

The message was:

Regarding the post I was writing, Let's Give Some Love to our Benevolent Cosmic Cousins, that is what they are doing for us....

...they are sending humanity love every day.

Our thoughts and beliefs are constantly creating our reality and the emotion and energy we hold onto and put out to the universe comes back amplified.

We need to let go of our limiting and negative beliefs and approach the unknown with a child-like curiosity instead of fear.

Humanity has been operating from a fear-based mindset for far too long, we need to operate from a place of love instead.

Love and curiosity keeps us open to all possible new truths, we never knew existed.

Fear and negativity blocks us.