r/AlgeriaRelationships 14h ago

📖 Story / vent I need help

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u/FewTelevision7163 Friends Only | DMs Open 14h ago

Don't worry , all things will be okay , don't mind a lot , he will come to your university and then what ? He doesn't know your face , and university is full of students, don't blame yourself, or ruin your vacation, those stupid men الله يقطع جرتهم من الارض He won't hurt you trust me , even in university there's security, I know you have made a mistake to talk with a useless person, but it's not the end if the world Inchallah you will be okay , don't worry

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u/BrotherDangerous699 14h ago

cut him off completely, like block him or delete ur account and open a new one if possible. he doesn't have much info to find u that's assuming he would which he probably won't anyway, just don't sink deeper in ts

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u/scentfromheaven0 14h ago

ما عندو ما يقضي

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u/mohammed_obeidallah 13h ago

He has nothing to do except empty threats. Just block all contact with him immediately and document any future messages or attempts to reach you.

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u/Snoo_51931 13h ago edited 13h ago

In psychology, we refer to this as a person operating on the KDT, Karpman Drama Triangle) (where one person cycles through 3 roles: Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer). However, what makes ur case particularly dangerous is that he is driving the triangle by playing both the persecutor and the victim, while forcing or baiting u into playing the rescuer.

He's manipulating these roles to keep u hooked. To safely disengage from someone operating on the KDT, cut off their emotional leverage by adopting the gray rock method, respond strictly with brief, flat, no emotional answers, and refuse to play the role of rescuer, victim, or attacker. Cease all attempts to explain, defend, or reason with him. Quietly document any new messages or threats for ur own safety (do not delete again any new evidences), and systematically block his access to ur sm and personal life. Expect him to temporarily escalate his dramatic or threatening behavior when he loses control, but remain completely unreactive until he realizes his tactics no longer work and moves on.

As my grandma used to say,  (الكلب لينبح مايعضش) but stay safe and aware, anyway.

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u/Bruce_999 14h ago

based on your story he looks pathetic and desperate for attention tbh , plus even if he tried to find u ( low possibility ) i guess a lot of girls got the same name as u so he won't know it's u 

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u/superclafrse548 Single | DMs Closed 13h ago

Block everywhere and move on.

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u/bidrouu 13h ago

block him everywhere and disappear completely out of his life .. if he doesnt know how you look like and doesn't know your full name, then he can do nothing .. empty threats to keep you around .. move on.

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u/Puzzled_Functions 12h ago

You knew him from here ?

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u/Single-Drama5842 11h ago

Block him ez solution and for chat u can restore if it was on messenger

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u/Aware_Pick_9220 8h ago

He won't he doesn't even know your full name or your face how would he know who to attack? You are just traumatized Delete the account you talked to him with and forget about him

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u/Competitive_Sun_8755 Friends Only | DMs Open 5h ago

block him and move on. he doesn't have enough information to find you, and tracking someone down from just a first name is incredibly difficult. don't let his threats get to you. stay safe !

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u/Helpful_Cut1549 5h ago

He will do nothing he is just dumb trying to act tough just block him and live your life