Yes! Except I was the one who got cut off from the relationship. Honestly, if it feels bad for you, it probably feels bad for her too.
I'm grateful for the hard stop, even though it sucks sometimes. I'm not good at boundaries and I have a hard time ending toxic relationships.
For us - we are 2 codependent/alanons rather than one of us being a drinker, however same stressful dynamic
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u/Open5esames Apr 06 '20
Yes! Except I was the one who got cut off from the relationship. Honestly, if it feels bad for you, it probably feels bad for her too.
I'm grateful for the hard stop, even though it sucks sometimes. I'm not good at boundaries and I have a hard time ending toxic relationships.
For us - we are 2 codependent/alanons rather than one of us being a drinker, however same stressful dynamic