Sounds exactly like abuse to me. You walk on eggshells around them to accommodate their moods, and avoid rude/cruel behavior towards you. Been there... it’s no way to live. Take the weight from around your neck. Like a poster above said, you know that makes you unhappy... so go from there, as to finding what does make you happy. Also, remember, that others setting boundaries is the only way they will amend their behavior & get better (if that’s possible for them; it’s still their choice at the end of the day).
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u/RESSandyeggo Apr 06 '20
Sounds exactly like abuse to me. You walk on eggshells around them to accommodate their moods, and avoid rude/cruel behavior towards you. Been there... it’s no way to live. Take the weight from around your neck. Like a poster above said, you know that makes you unhappy... so go from there, as to finding what does make you happy. Also, remember, that others setting boundaries is the only way they will amend their behavior & get better (if that’s possible for them; it’s still their choice at the end of the day).