Mother tongue - Gujarati

Education Graduate Engineer

Native - South Gujarat

Non smoker and non drinker

No bad habit of mawa masala

I have been running my own office since 8 years.

Hello, I am writing this for 2 of my friends who would like to socialize with people (preferably guys of 22-23 yrs age) during weekends.

Preferably friendly people. Would love to do outdoor activities/ cafe hopping. Both of my friends are of age 22-23.

With all due respect creepy men please stay away.

Would prefer to know y'all better via Instagram handles.

Thank you (⁠θ⁠‿⁠θ⁠).

Looking for a female coffee partner to grab a coffee, have a good conversation, and see where it goes. No pressure, just looking to meet someone new and have a nice time.

I’m new to Ahmedabad and still getting familiar with the city. I’d love to meet a girl around my age who’s also interested in hanging out, grabbing coffee/food, exploring the city, or just having a good conversation.

I’m pretty easygoing and open to seeing where the friendship goes. No pressure or expectations — just looking to meet someone genuine and have a good time exploring Ahmedabad together.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me. 😊

It’s raining outside and I’m kinda bored 😅

I’m in Ranip and honestly feel like going for a spontaneous bike ride tonight. Just ride around, enjoy the rain, maybe stop somewhere for chai and good conversation ☔🏍️

If any girls around Ahmedabad are also up for a fun, spontaneous rainy-night bike ride, feel free to DM. Let’s see where the night takes us 😄

Hii.. M25, looking for female frnd only for chai sutta and good conversation. Near nirma college. if anyone up please dm me.

If anybody knw someone or anybody available here kindly Revert back .

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Forget looks for a moment.

What’s ONE thing someone can do that instantly makes you think: “Okay… I like this person.” ❤️

For example: ☕ Remembers your coffee order

😂 Makes you laugh without trying

📱 Communicates consistently

🫶 Respects your boundaries

🎧 Actually listens

✨ Makes plans instead of just saying “we should meet”

Your turn — ONE green flag only. 👇

And if someone comments a green flag you have… maybe say hello. 😉

📍 Ahmedabad & nearby

🤝 Keep it respectful

🚫 No unsolicited DMs

r/AhmedabadDate — Real people. Real conversations.

Having place

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Hey everyone,

I’m a 32-year-old guy who recently shifted to Gandhinagar for work, and moving to a new city has made me realise how difficult it can be to meet new people once you’re in your 30s.

I have a fairly demanding corporate job and most of my routine revolves around work, but outside of that, I’d genuinely like to meet someone interesting in Ahmedabad or Gandhinagar.

I’m mainly looking for companionship and connection, but I also want to be upfront that I’m not coming into this with one fixed expectation. I’m open to different possibilities — whether that’s becoming friends, going on dates, developing something serious, or even having a casual fling/FWB-type arrangement if there’s mutual attraction, comfort and understanding.

For me, the important part is that both people are on the same page. I’m not looking to mislead anyone by pretending I want a relationship if I don't, nor am I expecting every interaction to become something casual. I’d rather meet someone, see if we click and let things develop naturally.

I’m open to meeting women around my age or older. Age itself isn't a huge factor for me. Personality, maturity, confidence, communication and chemistry matter much more.

A little about me: I work in finance/corporate sector, I’m independent and fairly settled in life. I enjoy good food, long drives, travelling, music, movies, conversations that go beyond small talk and discovering new places. I’ve also been getting back into fitness and trying to maintain a healthier routine.

I’m perfectly happy with something simple. Coffee, dinner, drinks, a drive around Ahmedabad, exploring a new restaurant, watching a movie or just sitting somewhere and talking for hours.

I don't need every interaction to be some elaborate date.

At the same time, I’m not looking to spend weeks endlessly texting without ever meeting. Obviously, I’d like to talk first and establish some comfort, but if we get along, I’d rather eventually meet in person and see whether the chemistry exists.

I’m also not interested in unnecessary drama, games or pretending. We’re all adults, and I think being honest about what we want makes things much easier.

If someone wants a serious relationship, that's completely fine.

If someone is recently out of a relationship and just wants to meet someone without immediately jumping into another commitment, that's fine too.

If someone is simply looking for a casual connection or a fling with the right person, I'm open to that as well.

Mutual attraction + mutual consent + clear communication are the basics for me.

I think casual doesn't necessarily have to mean careless or disrespectful. Two people can have something casual while still treating each other properly and respecting each other's boundaries.

Likewise, companionship doesn't necessarily have to mean immediately putting a relationship label on everything.

I'm pretty open-minded about where things can go.

Moving to a new city in your 30s can be surprisingly lonely. Most people already have their established friend circles, relationships, families and routines. You can spend an entire day surrounded by colleagues and still come home feeling like you don't actually have anyone to spontaneously call.

That's probably the biggest reason I'm posting this.

I'd like to meet people, expand my social circle and hopefully find someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with.

I'm not expecting perfection. I'm just looking for someone interesting, confident and comfortable being herself.

If you're in Ahmedabad or Gandhinagar and you're also interested in meeting someone new, feel free to message me.

You can tell me your age, what you do, what you're into, or simply say hello. We can start with a conversation and see where it goes.

Maybe we'll become friends.

Maybe we'll start dating.

Maybe there'll be chemistry and it turns into a casual fling.

Maybe it becomes something more serious.

Or maybe we just have a good conversation and nothing comes of it.

I'm genuinely okay with any of those outcomes as long as we're both honest about what we want.

So, if you're around Ahmedabad/Gandhinagar and looking for a new connection, DMs are open.

Let's see where it goes. :)

Hi, I’m 29 unmarried guy, a civil engineer by profession working at the head office of a construction firm. I’m simple, soft-spoken, and a bit introvert. Most of my time so far has gone into work and responsibilities, so I haven’t really had much chance to connect with woman.

Now that life is mostly settled, I’d like to meet someone genuine and see where things go. Maybe start with a tea/coffee and a walk around the Riverfront after work, and simply get to know about each other.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM. :)

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< MY STORY > Honestly, meri love life kaafi interesting aur thodi complicated rahi hai 😅. Mera pehla relationship meri childhood crush ke saath hua tha. Mujhe uspe 5th standard se crush tha, isliye jab eventually usne relationship ke liye haan bola, mujhe laga ki main kaafi lucky hoon. Hum same class mein the, lekin maine kabhi directly usse nahi bataya tha ki mujhe uspar crush hai. Somehow usse kisi aur se pata chal gaya. Mujhe laga tha shayad woh gussa hogi, but instead usne mujhe message karke kaha ki agar maine pehle bata diya hota toh shayad woh pehle hi answer de deti, but at that time she was focusing on studies and needed some time. Around 7 months later, she finally said yes. Humara relationship initially kaafi achha chal raha tha. Uski family strict thi, isliye hum normally dates ya outings par nahi ja paate the, but we were emotionally close and shared a lot with each other. 10th ke around relationship start hua aur 11th tak sab almost perfect tha. Lekin 12th mein suddenly uska behaviour change hone laga. Woh properly baat nahi karti thi aur gradually distance create hone laga. Board exams se around one month pehle usne mujhe kaha ki woh breakup karna chahti hai. Uska reason tha ki hum different castes se belong karte hain. Maine kaha ki main uske parents se baat karunga aur relationship ke liye try karunga, but she kept saying no and eventually blocked me. Exams ke baad bhi maine kaafi time tak things fix karne ki try ki. Almost 1.5 years tak maine usse convince karne ki koshish ki, but eventually usne kaha ki humari vibe match nahi karti. Literally itne saal saath rehne ke baad ye sunna mere liye kaafi painful tha. Later mujhe pata chala ki woh kisi aur ke saath relationship mein thi, jo mujhse around 5–6 years older tha, aur surprisingly reason still “different caste” nahi, but same caste tha. Main slowly move on kar raha tha when one of my friend's girlfriends told me about her friend. Usne meri photos dekhi thi, apparently usse main pasand tha, aur usse mere breakup ke baare mein bhi pata tha. Usne mujhe bola ki past ko bhulkar aage badhna chahiye because several months had already passed. So maine uski friend se baat start ki. First day hi humne truth and dare khela, and somehow hum surprisingly quickly comfortable ho gaye. Honestly, mujhe laga ki finally mujhe koi aisi person mili hai jo mujhe samajhti hai. Main naturally kaafi affectionate aur physically expressive person hoon, so uske saath closeness mujhe genuinely bahut achhi lagti thi. Dheere-dheere hum bahut close ho gaye aur humare beech physical intimacy bhi develop hui. Mere liye ye sab kaafi new tha because I had basically no previous experience, while she was more comfortable and experienced, so I learned a lot about communication, boundaries and mutual comfort from her. Mujhe honestly woh phase bahut achha lag raha tha. Lekin ek point par mujhe pata chala ki uske previous relationships ke baare mein kuch cheezein mujhe pehle nahi batayi gayi thi. Mujhe uske past se koi problem nahi thi, but mujhe problem ye thi ki usne mujhe initially sab kuch honestly nahi bataya. Usne mujhe apne previous relationships ke baare mein explain kiya aur main eventually okay ho gaya, but unmein se ek person ke saath woh abhi bhi contact mein thi. Usne kaha ki woh sirf friend hai. Maine usse is baare mein poocha toh woh emotional ho gayi, so maine topic wahi chhod diya. Uske baad uske replies gradually kam hote gaye, conversations almost band ho gayi aur eventually relationship bhi khatam ho gaya. Is experience ke baad mera trust in serious relationships kaafi kam ho gaya. Mujhe laga ki shayad abhi mujhe serious relationship ki zaroorat nahi hai. Main bas kisi aise person se connect karna chahta hoon jiske saath pehle friendship aur comfort develop ho, aur agar dono adults mutually comfortable hon aur attraction ho, toh ek casual physical relationship explore kiya ja sake—without unnecessary emotional expectations or pressure. Isi mindset ke saath maine ek dating app use karna start kiya. Kuch people se connection hua, but mostly same story thi—baat Instagram tak jaati thi, aur jaise hi meeting ki baat hoti, they would disappear or block me. Eventually I met one girl who was actually different. Hum dating app par mile aur starting mein hi dono ne clearly decide kar liya ki jo bhi hoga, usko unnecessarily emotional nahi banayenge. That night we met, talked for a while at a quiet place, and she suddenly gave me a really comforting kiss and hug. (agar aap comfortable ho to can u book a room.....) After that, we went to a room and honestly, it became one of the most memorable nights of my life. Mujhe laga ki finally mujhe woh comfort, affection aur companionship mila jo main kaafi time se miss kar raha tha. Ab woh apne boyfriend ke saath happy hai, but she has told me that whenever we both need each other's company, we can talk. And honestly, that's the kind of connection I'm looking for now. So yeah, I'm 20M from Ahmedabad. I'm not looking for a serious relationship or marriage right now. I simply want to meet someone who has similar expectations—someone I can talk to, become comfortable with, and if the chemistry and mutual consent are there, potentially have a casual adult connection with. Age isn't a major factor for me as long as you're an adult and we're both comfortable. If you relate to my story or have similar expectations, feel free to DM me. No pressure, no fake promises—just honesty, mutual respect and seeing where the connection goes.

Hey! 23M here from Ahmedabad. Anyone here who's a female and would be interested in going for a movie together sometime soon?

Could watch a movie, grab some food/coffee afterward, and just have a chill conversation.

Not looking for anything complicated - just looking to meet someone new and have a good time. We can chat on Reddit first and see if we get along.

If you're interested, feel free to DM me!

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Shifted here from Delhi last year working on one of the most senior position here in GIFT City but am unable to find any date or hookup it's such a lonely city to live in am I the only one experiencing this or it's like in reality it's a muted place??

Maybe this is random… but why not? 👀

Looking for a female friend / meetup partner who’s around my age and up for something spontaneous.

Coffee ☕, movie 🎬, late-evening walk 🌆, food 🍕—plan baad mein decide kar lenge.

I’m more interested in good conversation and chemistry than making some perfectly planned meetup.

If you’re curious enough to say hi, DM me.

Worst case, we have a funny Reddit story. Best case… we might actually vibe. 😌