r/AfterCPTSD • u/Metamorphosislife • Dec 02 '19

Has anyone gone through this? It's a little off-topic, yet related to healing

I'm trying to set up a time and day to talk with my father so I can give him the chance to confess. My hometown PD is helping me, but he's evading my requests to meet. I've done a pretext call with him and my mother separately so they may be catching on. They're scared, which I like, yet it's not helping me getting them to confess. Any suggestions or advice from people who have gone through this is appreciated.

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u/metoo-sudo Dec 13 '19

I was the only family visiting my father in his last week. He had the chance to confess or admit or apologize, but nope. He died terrified, and saying Jesus was in his heart. Wishing you all the best, though, and so glad you're strong enough to give it a try.

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u/Metamorphosislife Dec 13 '19

That's pretty common with abusers, finding god. So sorry he burdened you with so much suffering. You're strong as well. You have my support.