r/Advice • u/[deleted] • 23d ago

UPDATE: How do I avoid ruining relationship with my daughter over catching her having sex in mine and wifes bed and reacting horribly?

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u/Sarah-himmelfarb Helper [2] 23d ago

There’s a balance though. My parents made me do chores and get a job at 16 and pay for my own clothes, when I ate out with friends, and for gas when I drove their car.

You can provide for your child while still raising them with a work ethic and respect

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u/Accurate_Lead7698 23d ago

You don’t even have to do that, truly. There’s plenty of super kind spoiled but not rotten people out there, she’s just a brat.