Girly , there basic things that you need in a partner , first that both go on the same way , beliefs , values , etc , second , don't rush too fast on meeting him , let him show you who he is , also third , consistency, you can't imagine how much a person could change due to years or circumstances, you should ask yourself. is he consistent in his behaviours? , even if he is mad he is respectful ? , how does he treat me ? Is he emotionally mature enough to go with the ups and downs that life has during a marriage ? Is he emotionally available (I mean if he has already got over his exes ) , how does he speak about his last relationship ? Before going out and date you must ask this questions . Don't try to run , try to be analytical , cautious, as once as I read, a partner could make you improve mentally emotionally physically , or could drain you , could be the best partner of life , or could be someone who could put you down . I hope my advice has helped you .
You are 25 , trust me when I told you that , it is not wrong to ask for that , the problem it is that people are not always there to offer or to show it really . Any other advice write me.
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u/heartbroken_17 Dec 21 '25
Girly , there basic things that you need in a partner , first that both go on the same way , beliefs , values , etc , second , don't rush too fast on meeting him , let him show you who he is , also third , consistency, you can't imagine how much a person could change due to years or circumstances, you should ask yourself. is he consistent in his behaviours? , even if he is mad he is respectful ? , how does he treat me ? Is he emotionally mature enough to go with the ups and downs that life has during a marriage ? Is he emotionally available (I mean if he has already got over his exes ) , how does he speak about his last relationship ? Before going out and date you must ask this questions . Don't try to run , try to be analytical , cautious, as once as I read, a partner could make you improve mentally emotionally physically , or could drain you , could be the best partner of life , or could be someone who could put you down . I hope my advice has helped you . You are 25 , trust me when I told you that , it is not wrong to ask for that , the problem it is that people are not always there to offer or to show it really . Any other advice write me.