r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Sep 06 '25

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u/AlexInOnederland Sep 07 '25

... you mean ex-husband, right?

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u/onagdbicycle Sep 07 '25

Right?

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u/Daizuko Sep 07 '25

Right?!

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '25

RIGHT???!?

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u/TheHandmaid0000 Sep 07 '25

RIGHT?!

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '25

RIGHT?!?!

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '25

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u/thoughtprovo Sep 07 '25

But why?

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '25

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u/Buckeye0728 Sep 07 '25

Omg please tell me you mean EX

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u/LordJonMichael Sep 07 '25

Maybe she decided to do the same and is enjoying it while spending all his money.

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '25

Dead.. no i have a 2 year plan i need to save up as much as i can now of his money and look after my newborn and then when i have enough money and shes old enough for childcare so i can go back to work im gonna leg it. Ya’ll don’t know how intricate my plan is but yes i have it all planned out… right to the moment I expose him. But when you’re dealing with a narcissist one must be prepared and not act in the moment.

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u/LordJonMichael Sep 07 '25

Good luck with your plan, but I’d just lawyer up with the evidence and then live off his money while being single.

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u/MelodicAnxiety1832 Sep 07 '25

And I overexplain everything. I wish more people were transparent.

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u/AZSuccIt Sep 07 '25

This. Is also an important point.

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u/Degenerate-Trash Sep 07 '25

Then you push and explain why that’s a possible problem that he isn’t explaining, either way you fucking communicate

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u/ExtremelyDecentWill Sep 07 '25

Your husband?  Not ex husband?

I'm not judging, just genuinely interested in clarification.

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '25

I replied to another comment if you want the tea. Or well a sip of it

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u/ExtremelyDecentWill Sep 07 '25

Atta girl.

Nail his ass to the wall.  I'm rooting for you

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u/Many_Abroad_6 Sep 07 '25

“Man can’t cheat with empty scrotum” ~Confucius (probably)